MY friend confronted me yesterday saying i get on her nerves and like she went and made a new friends and hasnt really been around me and so i dont understand how im annoying her.. i got an opinion on why would she act like that from a friend and she said probably because she wants to be cool and accepted. I dont know know if I wan tot even try to fix this friendship? any thoughts?????? email me at meag09@gmail.com
2006-11-10 03:29:39 · 4 answers · asked by Meagan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My best advise is to let her go, you dont need a friend like that. Friends are with you in the good and bad times, and they support you all the way and 100%. She is not your friend by pretending to be cool just to make another kind of friends.
2006-11-10 03:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this girl wanted to end your friendship so she could be friends with these other people. Instead of her telling you the truth, she wants to blame it on you as to why your friendship ended. If this girl was a true friend, she would still be your friend, even if she had new friends. You can only fix a friendship if both parties are willing and it sounds like she's not willing. Leave this girl to her new friends and you make some new friends with people you have things in common with.
2006-11-10 17:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of people that will give into the pressures of being popular no matter what. If she is going to leave you behind because of a little statis and because she said you "annoy her" than well maybe you should let her go and find someone else that will be a true friend to you and actually be there no matter what opportunity arises. There are people that will be there like that.But, the decision is yours to make in the end.
2006-11-10 11:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU REALLY VALUE YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH THIS PERSON I WOULD TRY MY HAND AT TALKING TO HER ABOUT IT JUST YOU TWO, IF SHE STILL SAYS YOU BOTHER HER OR WHATEVER THEN JUST LET IT BE. LIKE PEOPLE DO ALL TYPES OF THINGS TO GET ACCEPTED, I'M A ASSUMING YOUR IN HIGH SCHOOL SO IT'S REALLY JUST A PHASE SHE'S GOING THREW IT COULD LAST A SEMESTER OR YOUR WHOLE HIGH SCHOOL LIFE'S, PEOPLE CHANGE MAYBE YOU TWO ARE GROWING APART BESIDES WHO WANTS TO HANG WITH SOMEONE WHO ISN'T TRUE TO THEMSELVES NO MATTER WHO'S AROUND. APPARENTLY YOUR FRIEND DOESN'T THING YOUR AS COOL AS THESE OTHER PEOPLE WHOM EVER THEY ARE. SCREW THEM BE YOU. AD START HANGING AROUND OTHER PEOPLE THAT ARE COMFORTABLE IN THERE OWN SKIN AS WELL. AS FAR AS YOUR FRIEND GOES, IT'S A LOT OF WORK GOING AROUND PRETENDING TO BE SOMETHING YOUR NOT SO IT PROBABLY WON'T LAST LONG, BUT DON'T WASTE YOUR HIGH SCHOOL YEARS WAITING ON HER TO COME AROUND DO YOU.
2006-11-10 11:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋