I recently went out on a date with a GREAT guy. We are getting the chance to have a second date. I would like to date this guy regularly. Emotionally, and physically I think this guy is a match for me and I'm pretty sure he thinks the same of me. He makes my toes curl, shall we say. However I have one small concern. Ok, it's not small. He is well endowed. We are talking in my estimations of 8" or better. I am what most call versitale. I enjoy being on the recieving end, but I have never been with anyone this well endowed. Any helpful suugestions on what I can do to warm up to him and enjoy the expereince.
2006-11-10 03:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-11-10 03:42:34 · update #1
Well congratulations, well indowed is hard to find. First, if you are in the missionary position you can place one hand on each side of your vagina, this will take up a couple inches of his length and keep him from penetrating too deep, it may seem awkward at first. Also you may try being on top...this will allow you to be in control of how deep he goes and over a period of time you may be able to take all of him more comfortably, it's really a matter of stretching.
2006-11-10 04:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Tom C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 inches?????? I don't don't know what you're used to but in my book 8" isn't anything to write home about (not that I wood....lol).
Tell the guy about your concern. I'm sure he'll take his time and be gentle. As a warm-up I recommend lots of deep, passionate kissing. That always loosens me up if you know what I mean (wink, wink). Plus, some finger probing to relax your sphincter muscle. Keep in mind he's probably just as concerned as you are about the first sexual experience you guys have together. He'll want it to be pleasurable for you Just take it slow and you'll be fine. Enjoy!
2006-11-10 15:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ozzie B. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Share your concerns and be frank. If the moment should arise, instruct him to be patience and take his time. Perhaps his first visit should be an introduction into the door of the living room. As time progress; perhaps he'll be able to visit the kitchen.
2006-11-10 11:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two rules........... too much lube is almost just enough, and anything will fit with enough lube.
have fun, relax, use protection, and good luck.
try using one of the silicone base lubes they stay "slippery longer" examples.... ID Millennium, Eros, Sliquid Silver, Wet Platinum and DeGLOW.
2006-11-10 11:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww and easy.. Major lube and talk about it before hand...
2006-11-10 11:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lube, Lube, Lube.
2006-11-10 12:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, thought u were gonna say he was like 25'' or something....relax...
2006-11-10 11:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him about your concerns...he'll take it easy.
2006-11-10 11:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
come and see me.
2006-11-10 11:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋