For instance there is this one girl I know who got married recently and we arent really good friends but she tells me that her sex life isnt that great right out of the blue. Im like ohhh. Lol then she pours it all on. I get that alllllll the time. My boss tells me about crazy stuff that has happened to her. Anyone I date tells me some really interesting things and sometimes not good things so what its the deal???
2006-11-10 03:24:35 · 6 answers · asked by b 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
This may sound strange but when I am doing good emotionally like without any big problems, not depressed, everything is going well, people always tell me their problems and serious stuff, but when I am doing bad it seems like they don't tell me anything.
I think I must send out some of vibes but not sure what they are.
2006-11-10 03:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get the same thing....I'm told that it's because I'm really open, warm and inviting. I think some of us are just born with people skills that cause people to want to over-share info with us.
If it makes you uncomfortable, just let the share-er know that it's TMI.
2006-11-10 11:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they can hide behind the computer. It is easy to confess when you do not have to face a person directly, which is why Catholic confession is behind a screen. Do you really want to walk up to your mother and confess all your sins to her face to face?
2006-11-10 11:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are a good listener and people feel comfortable confiding in you.
2006-11-10 11:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a good listener, and come off as non-judgmental. It's a gift, and a curse.
2006-11-10 11:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by DavidNH 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably because you are a good listener and they feel they can trust you.
2006-11-10 11:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by curiosity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋