I am attracted to women and prefer female company to male.
I have only had one lesbian experience and it was with a straight girl though I enjoyed it.
I would have liked to continue the relationship but she wasn't interested.
I am very feminine and only find feminine girls attractive. Do other people like me exist?!
2006-11-10 03:18:48 · 27 answers · asked by Rosie 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
China Rose: Do not insult me by suggesting I "prey" on straight girls. I am a normal human being who will only act upon feelings if there is a mutual attraction. Obviously.
2006-11-10 03:32:09 · update #1
If you've not really been out on the scene then you are probably unaware that there are many feminine gay and bi-sexual women around (I am one of them). It's perfectly normal to only find fems attractive and so I wouldn't worry about this at all it's just personal preference. Don't listen to those having a go on here, it doesn't sound to me like you are preying on these girls but merely that you find them more attractive than what you see as obviously gay girls...and that's fine. Try to get out to gay pubs and clubs more and you will see that gay women come in all descriptions and not just your stereotypical "butch". Straight girls are often experimental with one another and from my own experience this is not a route that a gay or bi girl should follow. They may flirt with you or even snog you but they will never want a relationship with you and so if that's what you want I suggest you go and find it (with a feminine gay girl). Good luck.
2006-11-10 03:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Hayley R 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No I don't want to 'bang her' that is how a guy thinks, lol I'm still a girl. I just only get crushes on girls not on boys. I'd want to get close enough to be friends with her, be around her more, and then date her maybe and have a relationship with her later on after we get to know each other enough and if feelings grow further. I usually have a hard time talking to a girl if I have a crush on her because I am really shy. So because I am too shy to even talk I promise you the last thing on my mind is sex.
2016-05-22 02:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why I am answering your question... I drove around a girl in a similiar situation to yours about two years ago. She was a lesbian living with a straight girl. And, although I don't know the whole story; I know that a straight girl isn't always ready for lesbian love and so my friend cheated on her partner with a true lesbian. Of course, that didn't go down well. But, they got through it. Then they moved out of state and I went up to see my friend and stayed with them. They were in trouble and my friend needed to talk to someone and she always had me to talk to when I drove her.
SO... if I were hearing your story ... I would say that it is possible to find what you want but maybe you will have to be satisfied with multiple partners over a life time. I know that lesbians tend to stick with one partner. But, maybe you aren't a true lesbian in that sense. I think you have a rough road to hoe with that... I mean, I am not saying that you cannot get straight girls who are willing to be your friend and lover. I think that it is a phase for a straight girl, you know what I mean. That could be a big heart break for you.
I got some other ideas how you could play the straight girl for another lesbian who likes straight girls and get off that way. I am only trying to help. And, I have found that sometimes my weird ideas work. hmm... they just don't work for me so well. Good luck.
Well, I was going to say that what you have is probably common to lots of other girls and that there are probably many straight girls willing for a sample of the same sex sex. What seems to be a difficulty is an on going relationship. I want to suggest that you think about where you want to be with a straight girl say in 20 years and maybe this is good that you are sharing this as you will meet perhaps some girls who are likely to be good friends for you.
2006-11-10 04:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait, I'm confused. Do you only fancy straight girls, or do you only fancy feminine girls? There's a difference, you know- feminine doesn't necessarily equal straight (there are a lot of femme lesbians/bisexual girls), and straight isn't always feminine (there are some butch straight girls out there).
If you seriously only like straight girls, you're going to have difficulty, only getting drunken one night stands and experimental bicurious experiences, because they're either straight or bisexual or lesbian, and if they're straight, this won't be happening more than once. Capisce?
Now, if you're feminine and like feminine girls, then you are definitely not alone! There are tons of femme/femme lesbians and bisexual ladies out there who feel the same. Enjoy!
2006-11-10 07:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i was like u a long time ago,always found myself attractive to strait girls.persued all the girls i liked,some lasted some didnt,then i fell in love with my boyfriend weve now been 2gether 1year and its gr8.he knows how i feel and he lets me have these experiences with women aslong as hes there watching the perfect compramise.so i worked out im not gay but bi-sexual and its gr8 when uve got a partner 2 love who loves u enough 2 let u explore.my advice go with u feelings sometimes theyll take u into difficult situations but its all a learning process,i hope my experience is of some help 2 u who would of thought id get the best of both with a loving partner 2 support me through it all,ur attraction 2 strait women is because its a challenge and u want what u cant have but then again alot of strait women r as curious as u,just be safe and go with ur heart take care hope all works out 4 u,heres my email if u want or need any more advice help. stacy126@btinternet.com dont hesitate im not a perv or anytning like that i just know what ur going through
2006-11-10 03:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by the one and only 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
My dear, surveys show that 10% of the world population is homosexual. There's absolutely nothing wrong being lesbian. You will certainly find many attractive feminine girls who would enjoy having a relationship with. All you have to do is to seek in the right places. There's no need to be afraid or ashamed of what you are. I really wish you the best there is.
P.S: If you need soeone to talk to, please send me an email: andremtm@hotmail.com (or add me on your MSN if you prefer).
2006-11-10 03:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
why try and go after straight girls and risk heartache when you can find yourself a nice feminine lesbian girl instead.and by the way she is not a "straight" girl if you have performed cunnilingus and passionately kissed,she is bisexual
2006-11-10 03:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by arfa54321 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am the same as you - entirely. Although I have never had an experience with a woman. I would love to though.
2006-11-10 03:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Relax - there are still lots of lesbian girls who like to appear feminine. Just take your time and look.
2006-11-10 03:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I am sure they do. I often wonder why girls who fancy girls, go for females that look like blokes! I think you should come 'out' and let everyone know you are gay and then hopefully another gay female who is pretty will let you know. Good luck.
2006-11-10 03:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by bluegizmored 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋