i do not know how to love myself. also i would like to know how can he treat me like nothing and he is with another girl and treat her with love and respect. is there something wrong with me all i did was love him and treat him right. i really feel like nothing please help me
2006-11-10 03:09:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well i will tell you like this you should not be in that relation because it can led to physically abuse. i know that it may be hard because i was once in one of those situtations. You should have a mind set yourself that tells you that you are beautiful. He may tell you that you're ugly, fat, dark, too light, to skinny, too slow, but its usually all lies. you should build your own self esteem up by telling yorself that u are beautiful. The only reason he abuse you verbally is to tear u down. He feeds you all these lies so he ca put u n a box and thinking that no one else would want you but that is no accurate. What the problem is that he is scared that someone else will have you and thats y he says the thing that he say. Also as for the other female, I once was the other woman and the only reason the man treat us well them with respect is because they have no respect for themselves for involving themselve in a relationship of sitution with an involved man. sorry that this is so long. If u need to talk nishababe74@yahoo.com contact me.
2006-11-10 03:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by nishababe74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have some fun.He verbally abused you because HE has low self esteem. The problem with women is that they fall in love with the thought of being in love.That's why they get mixed up with so-called bad boys.Women know these guys are losers.They think they're fun at first and even when they figure out they're losers they think they can change them.When they find out their bad boy is just immature and aren't going to change,they have 2 or 3 kids and nothing to show for their troubles. Now is the time to be happy you got rid of him.True love will find you.
2016-05-22 02:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you are better than to let someone else treat you like that especcially when you arre in a volnurably state. You just need to realize that you are a good person and any guy would be lucky to be with you and see that he is not the only guy out there. And you can do better. There are guys out there that will treat you like a queen, and all you have to do is open yourself to love and trust yourself, give yourself some credit. This guy may have been a mistake, but everybody makes mistakes every now & again. Try not to be so hard on yourself.
2006-11-10 03:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ask yourself if you want to be with someone who is "with another girl." That right there tells you he has no respect for you. Get some confidence and cut that loser loose. YOU deserve WAY better. While you may feel down, do not let ANYONE EVER verbally abuse you and make you feel bad. What is the point in staying with someone if they make you unhappy? Be happy, girl!!! Get out there, dump him, and shine!
2006-11-10 03:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This other girl is almost irrelevant.
he treats you badly. You need to realize that you deserve better. You were good to him and now he takes you for granted. You can survive without him. Hes just a man. he is not the end all be all of your existence. He is not who you feel in love with. You love what he pretended to be. You see now what his true colors are. how long do you think your sanity can stand this relationship? If you have friends or family who can help, I suggest you turn to getting it.
2006-11-10 03:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop downing yourself, you said all you did was love him, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this, there are plenty of jerks out there that do this everyday, and eventually he will get tired of the one that he treats so good right now and begin to treat her the way he is treating you, he's a jerk, don't let him get you down, I'm sure there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, and as far as loving yourself, be yourself, figure out who that is and don't let anyone change it, accept yourself as the person you are, that's the only way to love yourself.
2006-11-10 03:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an idiot and you'll be better off without him.
2006-11-10 03:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Somebody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋