There are far too many questions on here from bitter girlfriends of ex husbands upset because their boyfriend has to pay child support or has to talk to the mother of his children or can't do what she wants to do because he has to trade weekends with his kids' mother..At what point are selfish little girls going to stop and look at themselves and say "WOW.. I'm SOOO not ready for an actual grown-up relationship with a grown-up man"?????
2006-11-10 02:49:58 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer F 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be happy he's a good father and taking care of his responsibilities.. would you rather be involved with a man that will drop his kids like bricks for a piece of ***?? or a beer???
2006-11-10 02:52:59 · update #1
Um, I don't really understand what you are ranting about. BUT, I am fine with my husband talking to his ex. He has a son who is a year OLDER than me. I have never met him, but I am fine with everything. His ex is even happy for us, and everything is good with everything. He even has a daughter with another women. They both left him, while he was off trying to support them and their children (at different times.). The girl he has a son with, regrets it, and still loves him, but is not trying to break us up. The mother of his daughter is a real *****, who won't even let him see his daughter. We have a tw year old son, and my husband is a GREAT father. So, not all women are like that.
2006-11-10 02:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just hope that a real man would avoid accepting a woman into his life that would pout about his having a loving, caring relationship with his kids. Put herself in the position of being the mother. How would she like it if she had his kids one day and he dumped them off all the time?
My ex and I get along great. We are good friends. We need to be we will be raising our child together forever because when she is grown there will be grandchildren as well.
2006-11-10 10:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by chicken farmer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The whole situation can just be tough to deal with sometimes and people just need a place to go and vent... so they come to Yahoo! Answers. It is not just dealing with ex wives... anytime you fall in love you get the persons family thrown in free of charge and you have to learn to deal with in-laws, children, best friends. Hopefully as adults you can learn to work together and keep things civil and do what is best for the children involved, but people are human and there are a lot of hurt feels going on in these situations. You can't let someones ex keep you from going forward in a relationship and there are no rules that say you have to like the ex... you just do the best you can. Most divorces are not mutual and so there is always going to be one ex who is pissed and jealous of the new woman... it can't really be solved you just have to rise above it.
2006-11-10 10:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is exactly why so many people will "run to the hills" the moment they find out a particular romantic interest has children. The third party dynamic is too much for most people...not to mention some of the "other baggage" between the two ex's that may appear.
2006-11-10 10:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree 100%. I hate the questions about not liking their husbands/boyfriends children even more. I have seen quite a few of "should i still marry him..." I hate it. If you dont like the kids, if you arent mature enough to realize this other woman will always be in his life in some way, leave the guy and his kids alone. Its not fair for either of them.
2006-11-10 10:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Barbi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is so true! It amazes me that they don't understand that when a man has children, he has to have contact with his ex because of the children. It takes a mature person to accept this and understand it. Men need to think about that when they start dating again.
2006-11-10 10:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly? Women are stupid. A lot of them are uneducated, spoiled, socially inept little girls who didn't have a strong enough upbringing to handle life and it's challenges. I completly agree with you that if you walk into a broken home, all your doing is helping push the glass around.
Besides that, single Mom's and Dad's shouldn't really be dating seriously until their babies are grown. I mean, respect the child!
2006-11-10 10:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree i dont talk to the mother my husband does and i adore my stepdaughter. If you really love someone then you accept everything about the relationship .even the kids.
2006-11-10 10:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by nobodytotalkabout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to a man who swaps weekends with his ex sometimes but, he still finds time for me... I agree, these people who complain about their hubbys ex need to grow up and stop being selfish...
2006-11-10 11:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Agreed!
When getting involved with someone, we need to realize the 'baggage' they may have. If the circumstances are not what we hope then we should find someone who doesnt have those kinds of responsibilities.
2006-11-10 10:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋