become emotionally attached to him and somehow you end up pregnant 4th baby mama only to find out a year later that he has another child on the way from another woman?
2006-11-10 02:44:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no ways ... i will gather my selfrespect i have any left and walk out of the door ...
2006-11-10 02:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by edifiz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I realize you said women only but I can not go without looking sorry and sorry to heat the news about this but I have a friend that was in the same hot spot as you. She found him on a dating web and she was so happy a catch of a life time they did get married and she new and was living with them 4 kids and it only took 2 years to find out that he has other kids all over the USA and then the IRS sends a letter to there house and he has money trouble and he who's back child support and he stops working and lays around the house the she found him cheating so he is all ways thinking with the wrong head. Yes they are in Divorse court and you need to really think about your future and you kids. I am sure you love him and he may love you and others but what does your family values and his.
2006-11-10 03:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U've got urself involved with a man that has a mission to plant his seed around the world. i can assure u that though u counted 4, there are still other kids spread around that he probably cant account for; too bad.
as to ur question, i do not hope to find myself within 100miles with such a man let alone be emotionally attached to him. i dont want u to think am harsh but most of all i cant help but feel bad for the kids as i consider them rather unfortunate to be fathered by such an irresponsible being.
Good luck.
2006-11-10 02:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you. I went through the same thing. I didn't, thank god, get pregnat. but he did have 3 different baby mama drama then the woman that he was seeing before me held her pregnacy a secret from him for over a year and then finally decided to tell us. What did it in for me was that all his money was going to them. I had to support us and it sucked and was never getting better. I felt like if we were to get married, cuz we were ingaged, that I could never have kids cuz we couldn't afford it. Unfortunately your in deeper, but it seems that he's not going to settle with you. I would join the ban of mothers and get his check!
2006-11-10 02:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you desire to realize by ability of having this emotional attachment to him? you're married, he's married and not something solid will come from this, for sure he sounds like he has grow to be to related and consistent with hazard has desperate to provide up the relationship previously something happens. you're having an emotional affair with him, do you like your husband? Do you nonetheless decide to be with him, if so out of appreciate it's time to place this guy on your previous previously he ruins your destiny. Time will heal you, provide up touch and talk approximately what you do have.
2016-10-21 14:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a big, big mistake to get involved with someone who already had three kids with three different women. How you didn't see it coming that you would only be one more baby's mama I will never understand.
2006-11-10 02:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by julz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not only you , my cousin have 4 wives 4 children have 1 japanese gf , have 1 gf in usa my cousin is a musician and real handsome also the second wife is the very best friend of the 1st wife , still they are best friends
2006-11-10 02:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!!! He does not know what it means to be in a relationship. Also you have to think about your health, if he is sleeping around and not using protection he can bring you something home(STD). Get out before you have another child or he gives you something you can't get rid of(AIDS).
2006-11-10 02:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, honey.... no matter how emotionally attached I was to him, it's a lot harder on your emotions to have to deal with that crap. Don't be afraid to be alone. Life is really sweet when you get those who are weighing you down out of your life.
2006-11-10 02:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by KC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldnt cos i cant trust him to be stable or keep up a stable relationship. I'll take my chances with my child and surely i'll see someone far better that would be honest and caring enough to be stable.
2006-11-10 02:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has a problem with a loose zipper and that won't change.
No, I would not stay with him. He is immature, irresponsible and obviously doesn't see anything wrong with his behaviour. Why WOULD you want to stay with him? I am not seeing any redeeming qualities in him.
2006-11-10 02:55:26 · answer #11 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋