2006-11-10 02:41:51 · 37 answers · asked by Scrappy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are being serious with this question, yes you should leave him....and call the police!
2006-11-10 02:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Assault is against the law. You should most definitely leave, if you are already being abused in public. Physical abuse has a tendency to escalate to much worse. There is no reason good enough to stay with someone that hurts you regardless of how much you love the individual. Just remember he can't beat you if you're not there to be beaten. No amount of talking and sex can justify getting beaten by another person.
2006-11-10 02:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by HGS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should leave him! No questions asked. That is totally unacceptable. There is nothing he could ever do that would make up for this. I know it will be hard to do but you must. If the house is in his name call in sick for work get the removal boys around and move all his stuff out and then change the locks on the door. Alternatively find a flat, move your stuff and file for divorce. Nobody should be allowed to treat a woman like that.
2006-11-10 02:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Birthe O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is never an excuse for a man to use violence against a woman, or vice versa come to that, yes it does work both ways. did he react to you hitting him? i'm not trying to vindicate him but i am suspicious of the wording of your question, maybe he beat you at chess? are you telling us the whole story?
if he hit you, then yes, or better still, kick him out.
if your talking about a game, then stop playing games if you are not willing to be beaten.
if it is a violent attack, then you don't need to ask the question, if he's done it once he can just as easily do it again, in fact he might have discovered that he enjoyed it. think on
2006-11-10 02:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by thesingist 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's abusing you than there shouldn't be a question about you leaving him, but my question is...What were you two doing in the LIBRARY that made him want to beat you there? You can't make noise, so you couldn't have been arguing loud. What did you say to make him do that?
2006-11-10 02:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should....B/c honey let me tell you. If he does it once he'll do it again. I've been through a lot in my life & I can tell you now that's one thing that I'm not going to put up with...If any man where to ever touch me He would be praying to God in the two seconds it took for him to touch me, b/c I would beat him til he's black & blue....I would fight him just as if it was my worst enemy....You don't fight to loose you fight to win....if someone gets the best of you then pick something up & bet their butt!!!!!!! No one should ever touch you....Your body is your temple!!! That is suppose to be your husband...If he really loves you then why did he hit you??? Think about it b/c that's just how it starts off!!!!
2006-11-10 04:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by Candice D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question can be taken two ways.
One he "beat" you, if as in "hit" physically.....if this be the case, everybody has there limits as to what they will take and what they will not take. Some people will let others keep hitting them and never leave and others..one hit and they will walk out. Me, if someone hits me, they better make it a good one cause they will never get anther chance at it as I will walk out the door to never be seen again except in court.
Two he "beat" you, as if in a game..........well then practice when he is not around to get your skills at the game better and then surprise him the next time you play him and maybe you can "beat" him. Hey games are fun to play.
2006-11-10 03:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What needs to done is that you two need some counseling. I would prefer you go to your pastor for help. He will tell you what God says about marriage and what God says about how a man should treat his wife and how a wife is to treat her husband. If you two truly love each other you would want to save your marriage. I suggest that you two accept Jesus into your heart and allow him to heal the wounds that was caused. Yes it hurts to be hurt and God is the only one who can heal a broken heart. Ask God to heal you, ask Him to help you in your marriage. He is waiting on you to seek Him for answers that He only can give. He loves you very much and He sees everything that you are going through. We can do nothing without the Lord. We need Him in every area of our lives. If your husband won't agree to this suggestion you accept the Lord and He will began to use you on behalf of your husband. He will come alone sooner or later. Just stay prayful and God will guide you in every way. God bless you.
2006-11-10 03:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-10 02:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the question is truly legitimate then first you need to notify the local authorities and they will advise you on your options...which you need to take very seriously..now if you're joking ...(I'm imagining that he beat you in a card or board game) play again..Better luck next time...
2006-11-10 03:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to your own question .If my husband EVER beat me i would make his life a living hell .Thats just for starters ! Leave him at the curb .
2006-11-10 02:55:45 · answer #11 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋