okay now is not a good time for me to get pregnant again, but i have been there before and i feel pregnant. i'm really in a nasty mood and i flip out easily, which is not like me. my lower stomach feels tight. i'm nauseous, i get a headache everytime i blink the wrong way, and i've been feeling very tired for no reason despitew getting plenty of sleep.
the thing is my boyfriend is going thorugh a really hard time right now. his eyes are bad and he broke his foot so he is out of work. so i do not want to tell him how i am feeling and add to his stress. i already have a baby like i said. i also do not want to go to the store and get a test because i live in a small town and people will talk. my mom will not go for me. by the way i am an adult not a kid.
w2hat do i do i have never felt so helpless. and i am on birth control and use protection every time. so now what???
thanks all,
~Rikki
2006-11-10 02:32:28 · 10 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The good Lord gave you this baby for a reason, so if you are pregnant. CELEBRATE!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-10 02:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by chicken farmer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're having all of those symtoms and you know how it felt with the last pregnancy then the likelihood of you being pregnant is good. My opinion is screw those that live in your town, they don't pay your bills, they don't sleep with you or live with you, they are not the ones who got you pregnant so tell them to get their own lives! But I know how people can talk so if you want to get a pregnancy test, go into another county or town and get one there or have a good friend buy one for you. If not look for a free clinic or planned parenthood place in another town too. As far as the boyfriend goes, I understand that he's going through a lot but you need the support now too, let him know what's going on and be there for each other. He may be thinking "what the hell is wrong with her, why is she snapping all the time" and not know why so just explain it to him and I'm sure you guys will get through this.
I've heard that the patch and the depo shot is not that effective, I've had friends who've taken these and they both became pregnant. Good luck to you!
2006-11-10 10:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are no other towns around you where you can buy a test? Even remote alaska has neighboring towns.
Theyre going to talk if you get pregnant, or if you buy a test, part of being an adult and not a child is dealing with that. If you're adult enough to try to make another baby with this man, then you can be adult enough to find out if youre pregnant.
You could just go down to your local clinic or doctors office and request blood work to find out.
If you're on BC and you use condoms every time, then you probably arent pregnatn at all, but stressed. Theres no way of knowing without testing, but I think its unlikely.
2006-11-10 10:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but too bad so sad! Even though you use procautions, when you decide to have sex, the chance is still there. Why worry about your man when you are feeling the way you do. You have to take control of your life and get over it! My first pregnancy wasn't planned and I used protection. OH WELL! My daughter is 13 months old and perfect! Have the baby and keep it or give the baby up for adoption. Plenty of loving couples want babies that can not have them. Don't become a murderer just because you can't handle it though.
2006-11-10 10:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by angie_laffin927 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel you are preggers you need to take a pregnancy test asap! What is stopping you from going to the pharmacy and buying a $13 ept? The longer that you wait, the longer that you are going w/out pre-natal care.
However, if you are on birth control, and you have been consistent in taking your pills daily, then it is unlikely that you are in fact pregnant. All of the symptoms that you are describing could be a side effect of birth control litself. You may want to look into switching birth control brands. -Janet
2006-11-10 10:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you know that birth control is not 100% effective. If I were you I would try to go to a larger city and try to get your pregnancy test there! Once you are sure if you are pregnant or not then tell your husband. If you need financial aid with for your children. Try DFACS, WIC and other goverment places like that. Wish you the best of luck!!
2006-11-10 10:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by jacee_jo7910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy better condom,s and maybe up your birth control dosage. birth control is not effective all of the time though. u need to tell your boyfriend so he can help u figure out what to do. it will only get worse if u hide it from him. best of luck.
2006-11-10 10:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Katiie Babiie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a drive to another town and buy a test there. im sure you will be fine. this may be some really good news to your b/f. he might be very happy about it. he will go back to work when his foot is healed and you have nine months to prepare. just relax and things will work out. good luck .
2006-11-10 10:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You would rather not know then go buy a test because people might talk? That does not sound very adult like. Order a test online from Drugstore.com and they will mail it to you or go see your doctor.
2006-11-10 10:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by KathyS 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
who cares if people talk about you, you need to outgrow that fear, go get a test and tell eveyone who talks to shut their flappers and get on with their OWN business.
2006-11-10 10:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋