im happy im haveing another one jus so scared the same thing will happen again that was the hardest thing in the world to go threw but now for every lil pain im scared thinking its gonna happen again i am stressing out i got so much anxiety
2006-11-10 02:05:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
In order to have a healthy pregnancy you need to calm down. Just relax and have faith that your baby is going to be okay. If it is meant to be it will be. Good luck and Congratulations.
2006-11-10 02:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wow, This the situation is the same as I was in only a few years ago . I how ever lost my first preancey at 6 mmonths, and I like you was scared to death about every thing. I was so scared that something was wrong with this baby too. I will be honest I worried thru the whole pregancey Untill I diliverd him and heard him cry. He was a beautiful baby boy 9lbs 15oz. he is now 7 years onld and I recenty had a nother baby and onmce again that overwhelming fear steped in but he too is fine. be careful, and keep all doctor appointments. BUt I want to let you kow I have been there and know exacty how you feel. I send my best wishes to you and your child.
2006-11-10 10:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by kelly r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be stressed help your self by chilling out and relax .It doesn't always happen again get in touch with your mid wife she'll reassure you it's only normal to worry , Enjoy your p/g and picture that baby being with you soon.and if you think things are going wrong get on the phone to hospital doctor or midwife and get some one to come and see you your carring an extra special person keep it safe.
keep your chin up and keep smiling you'll have that baby.
Best wishes.
( I also had a stillborn son last may and got pg again unfortunately i miscarried but the m/c are medical for me the s/b was negligence.)
2006-11-10 10:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did they determine the cause of the stillbirth? In most cases they can find the cause and be sure to avoid it next time.
Stay in good contact with your doctor, and ask her these questions.
Its normal to have anxiety in a situation like this. But you risk a miscarriage from being so stressed over the fear of losing your baby. It puts tremendous stress on your body and the baby.
I would suggest a good doctor, and informed appointments where you get all your questions answered along with recieving great care.
2006-11-10 10:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me, I didn;t let my myself actually enjoy the pregnancy, it was my bodies way of protecting me from having the same kind of pain again. I only really got excited and happy about it after my daughter was born and I was reassured that everything was ok. I am pregnant again and going through the exact same stuff. It is normal, but try your hardest to not stress about it to much, it is not good for the baby you are making right now, easier said than done i know.
2006-11-10 10:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get this burden off yourself----you are having children motivated by love. That is all that matters, and love will give you the strength when you need it---it's all-powerful.
If you want, it might make you feel better to think of GOD (or "love") as being completely in charge, creating the children exactly the way He wants them, for a destiny only He knows or understands, and that his love is all-powerful. Do what you know is right, and then try not to question --- HE, or "love" creates the unique child----it is not in your power to control the outcome.
2006-11-10 10:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that everything happens for a reason. The other baby would probably have had complications and this is why he/she was still born. This baby will be fine, as long as you take care of yourself, take your vitamins, get rest, goto all your doctors appointment this baby is going to be alright. Try to not stress yourself because it affects the baby too... Good Luck to you, and Congratulations....
2006-11-10 10:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to fear that you will have to go through this again. Try not to worry to much OK. It is not healthy for you or the baby. Try not to do strenuous activities and if you can refrain from having sex the first couple months until the baby has been firmly implanted into your uterus. Good luck and congratulations.
2006-11-10 10:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Vira 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that and it's understandable you don't want that to happen again. i'm sure that's extremely difficult to deal w/ but you can't get stressed w/ your pregnancy that won't help. you need to talk to your dr. and find out if it's possible to go through that again and what you can do to prevent it. good luck
2006-11-10 10:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I CAN UNDERSTAND I would probably be scared too, let your doctor know how you feel and see if he will monitor your pregnancy very closely this time; tell him you want to see him twice a month,to check baby's heartbeat for your peace of mine if he wont do it find a doctor who will. and good luck hon I pray your baby will be ok.
2006-11-10 10:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by deedee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋