i usally get my period on the 21st i did the ovulation calculater it says i will ovulate around the 4th when was i most likely to get pregnant i am so nervous about this
2006-11-10 00:59:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well you might have ovulated at a different time and sperm can live in you for 3-5 days the only way to know for sure is get an ultrasound and they will tell you exactly how far you are and you will be able to be more accurate but i would say it was more likely the guy you had sex with on the 4th xx good luck x
you lot are so shallow all she is asking for advice give her a break!!
2006-11-10 01:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by mummy of 2 boys and a princess x 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Go to the Dr. Start taking care of your body. First and for most. These people dont have a right to judge u because WE HAVE ALL made mistakes in life that we wished we could do over. Second, I am not sure about the conception because the 2 are so close together. It could be either one. If u found out shortly after the second one then it is probably the first guys child. Reason being is that an egg and sperm have to fertilize each other kindof like fusing together for a period of about 2 weeks;. Tell your doctor and be honest. There is a doctor patient confidentiality agreement so u dont have to worry about the ladies in the office knowing everything giving u funky stares after u leave. Dont worry about being judged. People judge u in whatever u do. Just a fact of life. Do tell both of the guys..... U want them to know what is going on but dont tell each one u think they are the father. No, tell them there is a possibility they are the father. That way u r being as honest and sincere about it and u arent jerking their chain.
2006-11-10 01:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by texaslady78 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I love how people talk all that sh*t, but dont even know the whole story or cirumstances. Anyway since you asked for advice, thats what I'll try to do rather then down your situation. You ovulate give or take a couple days 14 days after the first day of your last period, so if you conceived on the 4th then you would have ovulated also on the fourth. Remember sperm last up tp five days, the egg only last 25 hours. Dont worry though, when you go to get your forst ultrasound, you can ask them to measure the baby very precise, tell then your situation and they will probably be able to help you. Good luck, and remember there are always options.
2006-11-10 01:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hello. First thing you should do is to relax, the most common reason for a womans period to delay is casued by stress. If you think your pregnant then have a pregnancy test as soon as possible. You have to take one step at a time and not get your self all in a mess. Make a plan of what to do.
1. Confirm pregnancy
2. Make your decision (dont make this decision on your own, if you cant turn to someone personal, goto a professional. Your local clinic)
2006-11-10 01:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Male-Nurse 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
the first guy is probably the father of your baby. on a regular 28-day cycle, ovulation USUALLY happens on the 14th day, or two weeks before your next period. so be very careful next time on those dates.
if your not using any artificial contraceptive method, make sure that you have sex only on the week preceding your expected period and a week after your period. so it's safe 7 days before and after the period.
to be really sure, have a paternity test done after delivering your baby.
good luck!
2006-11-10 01:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by wondering 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd go with the 4th, but don't take our words for it, you need to ask your doctor. Ask the doctor when the time of conception would be close to. And even though it might be hard, tell your Dr. about both men - there are tests I recommend you get done. Seriously. Hey - don't mean to 'creap you out' or anything however, I went to school with twins who had 2 different dads...Good luck.
2006-11-10 01:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, most likely its the guy u had sex with on the 4th, but 2bh, the only way you'l really know is if you get both the guys to consent to a paternity test.
I hope the father helps u out!!
best of luck n i hope the baby is fine n healthy!
xx
2006-11-10 01:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by *smile* 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have heard of people getting pregnant, right before their period, and like up to 3 days after their period...I would not trust the ...."you can get pregnant, only those 3 days" thing....I think their might be a paternity test in order.....wow!...sucks to be you...
2006-11-10 01:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by jan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get them both together for tea at your parents house and tell them all you are pregnant and not sure who the father is but that you have a pretty good idea that it is the first one. After you have the baby a blood test will confirm your suspicions.
2006-11-10 02:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Todd Maz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS
Okay, that said....it is most likely the guy from the 4th...eggs only live 12-48 hours from ovulation. Even if you're off by a day or two, your egg was most likely viable.
Get paternity test, get AIDS and other STDs testing done. Your behavior puts you at risk for many serious illnesses.
2006-11-10 01:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by jm1970 6 · 6⤊ 2⤋