I have only 3 baby daddys is that a bad thing? I was married to 1 of my kids father but it didn't work out . I am scared to date again because of several diffrent reasons ,but i am tired of being alone should i stop being a big baby or try dating again?
2006-11-10 00:37:50 · 13 answers · asked by AMBRASIA C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go ahead and date - that doesn't mean you're looking for a step-daddy - companionship is always nice. Just let the man know up front that you just wanna hang out and have a good time sometimes. Don't bring up how many kids and baby daddys you have either unless it starts getting serious - which should take a long time anyway.
2006-11-10 10:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Evoljz_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am a single mom of 4 kids and I can get your point on being lonely but, I find that my kids keeps me busy and there is nothing more important than our kids. I can sympathize with you but, at the same time I say you will know when you are ready, don't settle for someone just out of loneliness, i did that and it was a horrible relationship. wait until you are not doing it out of loneliness. Then you should start dating again. People who find someone out of loneliness tend to sometimes settle for the wrong kind of person. Start dating out of wanting to have a love life but be cautious and take it slow so you can see if he is a decent person or mot you have 6 kids to keep you busy until you find someone decent.
2006-11-10 08:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless the kids are fully grown up, as a parent and mom it is wise to focus on your kids as it would be difficult to juggle 6 +1 more. If the kids are young, they would need you now more than ever. Believe they'll love and cherish more than a man would. There will always be time for relationships when the kids are older. Surround yourself with family and friends and help from them so you won't feel too stress up or lonely. all the best.
2006-11-10 08:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jacq 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may be able to date again, but you have a hard package to sell. 6 kids is a lot of responsibility, and I dont know that you will find a man who will commit to that not being the father and given your past.
2006-11-10 08:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by sportyscott_28 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How in the world can you be lonely? You should'nt have time to be lonely.You can still date but don't exspect to much from anyone takeing over that size of family.Just be happy for yourself and your six.Date yes tell right away ,no.
2006-11-10 18:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Larry-Oklahoma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take care of your kids and don't worry about dating. they are your #1 priority, at least they should be. i guess it's an ok thing to ONLY have 3 dads for your kids, but i would get my tubes tied if i were you.
2006-11-10 18:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just gonna take ONE HELL OF A MAN.
Be patient, there are actually good men out there, they are just REALLY hard to find! Don't settle for somebody who doesn't care about your children, thats the worse mistake you could ever make, believe me.
2006-11-10 08:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by oxosasoxo 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Stop being a big baby and take care of your six kids and don't worry about dating because you have 6 HIGHER PRIORITIES!!!!
2006-11-10 08:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Thats a hell of a lot of baggage, its going to take a very special man...but right now I think your concern should be your kids.
2006-11-10 08:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
No more dating please. Your family is Æucked enough and with you out dating its just going to mess it up even more.
and please don't say "only 3" okay? thats just wrong, when does it become "i have" without the only? 5? 6? Please just concentrate on your kids and make sure they don't end up like you.
2006-11-10 18:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by red_of_the_lost 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋