and when i say whole life I mean past present and future have they took away everything in your life and made it unbearable to the point where you're gasping for breath just to survive.. If so explain how you get over having your heart ripped out?
2006-11-10 00:20:13 · 9 answers · asked by . 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I'm on about losing your only child who's been taken from you by someone else for no reason at all
2006-11-10 00:25:55 · update #1
I went out an f**ked the first person I met.
2006-11-10 00:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Claire B
You say you're only child is being taken from you for "no reason"
In 999 cases out of 1000 the woman always gets the child
She could be a heroin addicted hooker and she would still get the child ahead of a man
I don't know what your situation is here if it's a man or social services but no-one loses a child for "no reason". Re-think this one out
I hope you don't mean your child has been taken, as in killed do you ? Hate is understandable then I suppose
I understand hate because my life was completely destroyed as I knew it 8 years ago and I lost everything I knew and now the same person is trying to do it to me again. But I am beyond hating them. I want to befriend them for the good of the future because the past is gone and won't come back but the future is still there to be made the best of. So make the best of your situation
2006-11-10 08:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, a bureaucrat at the local council gave me all the wrong advice for 6 months and basically wrecked my life - I ended up with a nervous breakdown from it, job gone, home almost gone and huge debts. Thanks to some good friends I have pulled back from the brink over the months since and am re-sorting my life out. Then yesterday he passed me in the street and literally elbowed me off the pavement. Yes, I know what hate is. But if you let it rule your life youll never move on.
2006-11-10 08:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Laura-southdevonplayers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an INCREDIBLY abusive step-father throughout my school age years. The effect he had on me (mental and physical) caused me to almost destroy my marriage, becaused I lost the ability to trust anyone. I was on a ton of psychotic meds and tried to kill myself. Took me almost a decade to get over. I cannot explain it at all. I dunno why someone would treat a kid so horribly. I am so grateful my husband stuck by me, I do not know what would have happened if he hadn't been there for me. We have now been married almost 3 years and are expecting a daughter in February. :-)
2006-11-10 18:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so so sorry for your loss!
I will never understand your pain unless I suffer the same loss as you...I can only suggest you cherish every memory you had with your child, my heart goes out to you. X
No offence to the person above, but losing your job, home etc is no comparrison to losing a child....was in similar circumstances once myself, but I would rather lose everything than lose either of my children. x
2006-11-10 08:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try to forgive that person, almost impossible I should think. I have had some horrible experiences in my life, for which I'm still trying to forgive others and myself forty years later.
2006-11-10 08:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Hi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to wish that person the best and move on.
I did not say it was easy though.
I learned long ago not allow others to dictate how I feel about my life.
It is always best to pick yourself up, brush yourself off and get on with life.
Have faith in ultimate justice.
2006-11-10 08:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to court!
2006-11-10 09:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by June smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, genaraLLY
2006-11-10 08:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Rajeev R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋