I had a really good friend once, we used to do everything together,we could tell each other anything & know if we dident want anyone to know something we had told each other it wouldent go any further, that was untill my daughter came along. To cut along story short, my daughter was acussed of stealing money from my friend & i ended up beliving my daughter when she promised that she would never do that to my friend, after all my daughter new my friend since she was about 2, shes now 25. I ended up saying alot of nasty things to my friend & telling her boyfriend alot of things about her that i promised that i would never tell, they all most never got married because of me .After all this took place & my friend stoped talking to me ,I found out the hard way that my daughter lied she was going through a bad patch with drugs & gambling which i never new at the time. I really feel so bad about not beliving my friend but how could a mother not belive her child as she never troubled me b4..
2006-11-09 23:44:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why don't you try putting all your thoughts down and paper, writing your friend a letter explaining everything. Be open and honest and say exactly how you feel. It's then up to her if she would like to contact you - she will have a lot to forgive you for so you will need to give her time. I think writing is easier than on the telephone where you might end up arguing. With a letter she can keep reading it until she is ready to decide what she wants to do. Good friends are hard to come by - I hope you manage to get her back. Perhaps you could get your daughter to write to your friend and apologise.
2006-11-09 23:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh. That is so sad. Try calling your friend and asking to meet somewhere and have a lunch or something. Or explain it all over the phone. Be very calm about it and don't get too excited and don't accuse. If your freind is still a little shaken by the memories, just remember that it was a mistake, and your daughter is your daughter. If your friend is still mad at you, jut try to move along and continue your life in peace! Good luck!
2006-11-10 10:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Penelope ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her, i mean "if you risk nothing, you risk even more" Life is short to not have the people that care a lot about you in your life!!! You girls should talk about things and move on from there!!! I lost my best friend because we had a really bad argument and we were so close, he is like my other half!! Well last week i found out he was in the hospital are life or death reasons well i went to see him and he couldn't have been happier, he started crying and he was so happy to see me, it really made a difference!!!!!!! He is okay now and im happy to say that we are friends, we may not be best friends like it was but we are friends, I'm happy to have him in my life then not at all!!!! Talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's all i can say, it will make a difference
2006-11-10 22:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by cheerpunk2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly your friend she will understand.
2006-11-10 10:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by sue m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be your friend
2006-11-10 07:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋