We got drunk together a couple of times and ended up having sex. I told my mum i was going to see him and she knew we always got on well so she didnt think it would be in that way. I'm 16 he is 46. he has daughters older than me too.
And it is not rape in this county it is legal (I am at consent age).
The trouble is, my mum mentioned it to his neice's mum and she told him that she had done so in passing conversation, since then he's been pretty much ignorning me i havent heard from him in 3 days, do you think everything is ok?
I love him and i cant lose him and i dont know what to do.
And dont say I back-stabbed my mum because she walked out on me when i was 4 years old and doesnt really care about me anyway.
Please help he means everything to me.
2006-11-09 23:43:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-11-09 23:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think this man is a great guy. What's wrong with you. This man is 46 yrs old your only 16. Then to top things off he was your mother boyfriend. What is this payback on your part because your mother walked out on you at age 4. Your no better. You like this guy because he was different in bed. He hold you, he's nice etc.. You think he won't ditch you because he not that type of guy wake up he's wrose for a man to sleep with his ex girlfriend child something wrong with him. What you did'nt feel loved enough? You don't love yourself. Please help yourself. Read self help books read 10 stupid things women do to mess up there lives by Dr. Laura Pray ask God tell him your promblems he will listen find a good chuch. find good friends.
2016-05-22 02:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You really expect us to give you good advice on what to do when your a child???????? So what it's legal in your country, your still a child. You say your mother walked out on you when you were 4??? That's no reason to get back at her, and i'm sure your mother cares for you. It probably doesn't appear this way to you, but she loves you. You don't want to hear your a backstabber, but guess what??? YOU ARE!!!!!!!! This man doesn't care anything about you. All that he wants is what's between your legs. Leave this man alone because he's not going to be with you anyway. If he's low down enough to have sex with his ex-girlfriend's daughter that's only 16 then he's a sorry loser!!!!! I suggest you get yourself on the right path and find someone your own age because your headed down a dangerous road.
2006-11-09 23:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a self esteem, this doesn't even make a funny joke. I certainly hope you are not serious, and this is just a really sad attempt at a joke. You missed the mark. You have got some serious issues young lady if this is true, you need to get some help. God bless
2006-11-09 23:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, grow up! He's too old for you. It could be just a thing and you don't mean anything to him. Find someone your age. Maybe it's an error of judgement when you got drunk with underage drinking. Since statutory rape doesn't count in your country, you're still considered as jailbait. Maybe he wisened up and moved on.
2006-11-09 23:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I didn't finish reading your whole piece. Both you and him are committing a crime. In most States he's guilty of rape, your not at the age of consent. And, in fact, your mother, knowingly is also guilty of knowing about it, abetting. Please give your number so the D.A. in your area can contact you. He's in deep trouble and should be taken off the streets.
2006-11-09 23:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.... Dear, the age gap between him and you is too much. So the way he thinks is different.
What I suggest you is to have some selfrespect and don't disturb yourself. Just forget him and get involve in another relation.
Cause he won't be back to you... He is in the age which can set his mind nicely...
And if he comes back to you, he will be there to use you only.
2006-11-09 23:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Rayalone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence a man having sex with a girl your age it means he is using you and once he is finished he will dump u like abit of rubbish stay away from him he isnt worth the hassel he is too old for you anway find sombody your own age i dont think your mum will be very plessed with that.
2006-11-09 23:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my god you cetainly get about dont you.
first your sleeping with your daughters boyfriend cos your hubby aint giving you any and your now pregnant by your daughters boyfriend.
and your sleeping with your mums ex boyfriend too.
there is a name for people like you....
and if you sleeping with two diffrent guys what makes you so sure that your daughters boyfriend is the babies father.
which leads me to the conclusion that either
1) your a dirty old mousse who puts herself around
2) or your just an plain lier
2006-11-10 02:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its cool if u think he means a lot to u but hw much do u think u mean to him. id say nothing. he sees u as a willing sex machine and he is taking advantage of dat fact and u r letting him. dat is d sort of game men play and u unfortunately are his victim.get a grip on ur self will u?i hpoe u take my advice and let him go and wen u take dat decision, ul find ul feel much better.
2006-11-09 23:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by June 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around, comes around... You got what you bargained for... You became a 46 year olds treat... He's had his full and is moving on to the next treat he finds... It has nothing to do with your Mom...
2006-11-09 23:51:02 · answer #11 · answered by deakjone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋