I'm a 9 std student. I was 1st in my class till a girl came to my class.Teachers like her than me.my classmates hate her as she is rude to them and want me to be 1st. But I'm not able to. I feel disheartened and I hate her.She doesn't like others saying good about me and makes bad faces. I want to defeat her.What should I do?
2006-11-09 23:42:59 · 24 answers · asked by Neha Mathew 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
your goal should be getting your No 1 position back and not beating her to that place ... this way you will have less burden on yourself and you will achieve what you set out to acheive ... if she doesnt like people talking good about you thats her problem and she has to deal with it not you ... you are obviously at an advantage here - you are good at studies thats given also you have your friends support and then shes jealous of you .. what more do you want ... be happy and cheerful at all times .. you dont have to be good to her but dont be mean to her .. just ignore her concentrate on your studies .. you will definitely come 1st in your class again and that will be the icing on the cake ... all the best ..
2006-11-10 02:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is living well. Be nice to her - it will catch her off guard, and you won't be so miserable all the time. Do the best you can for YOU - it doesn't matter if you're first in class, as long as you're doing the best you can. There will always be people smarter than you, and there will always be people who are not as smart as you. Next time she makes a face at you just smile at her. Don't talk bad about her behind her back, and don't make faces at her. If she continues her bad behavior it will only make you look better. Having friends and a good reputation, and being a good person, is more important than being first in class, and will earn you more respect. There is no need to feel disheartened or hate towards her.
2006-11-09 23:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tie her down&try speaking sense to her(like if you don't stop cheating i'm gona make you my g/f and then there could be trouble) if that don't work slap her to a pulp, Take her study notes weeks before a test,Mid test tell the teacher you suspect her of cheating.If all these things don't work just quit cos she's simply smarter than you...there's nothing you can do.. Except bribe the teacher so she gives you the memo maybe that's what she's doing.Move schools and be the smart kid who's hated by everyone there.Maybe that's why she moved some smart kid came to her school and decided to take over it.
2006-11-10 00:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Cube 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The more you get concerned of her the more you lose. So please do your own part and concentrate on your strengths. Score well in your strong subject and try to better in others.
Most important you also need to swallow the fact that you still have not met the best of the best who might be out there.
Don't be disheartened.
Keep smiling and the world is the best place to live in.
2006-11-09 23:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sanju_the_gr8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her get to you. You know what kind of person you are and that's good enough. If she is rude to people, it's just a matter of time before she alienates herself from the rest of your class. Be the better person, don't let het get to you, keep your head up high and keep studying. She is the immature one here, not you. The only way to defeat her is to not let her bother you.
2006-11-09 23:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Althea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's always going to be someone in the world who is better than us. I have experienced the same thing and while it can feel disheartening you have to accept that they may be smarter than you, it is definitely possible. The teachers are following strict guidelines and it's not worth their careers to use favoritism so just work harder and achieve higher results. It's called competitiveness. Don't be rude back as you shouldn't have to lower yourself to her level of rudeness to be great. ;) Good luck
2006-11-09 23:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by friendly face 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hatered is not the answer , you will always find someone a little better than you , do your best , talk to your class mates ,it take a lot of engry to get and stay mad with someone ,if you hate and stay mad about someone or something you can do nothing about , you are using up a lot of engry on that one thing or person, be friendly ,be as good as you can,you seen like a leader, show your class that you and this girl can get along and the others will follow .This is the beginning you may not be first any more in school ,but you can be the best that you can
2006-11-10 00:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
competition can bring out the best and the worst in people. make it a healthy competition by allowing yourself to be challenged enough to do real good in school. but be careful, if in a race you keep looking over your shoulder to see where your opponents are, chances are you'll get distracted and lose. so focus instead on your studies. anyway, it sounds like you are already the number 1 student in class - at least in terms of friendliness. good luck!
2006-11-09 23:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need not worry about her,jst concentrate on urself.dnt take tension rather study harder to get that good marks or even more than that.if ul hate her and be jealous of her ul not be able to concentrate on ur study and u will keep on thinking about her.u show her that u have no effect of her bad faces,u r happy.and make her jealous.
best of luck !
2006-11-10 01:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by sakshi s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR NEHA,
dont b disheartd.may b c is rude or anything but,u hav 2 study harder only 4 u nt 4 ur 4rnds or any others.jst try 2 cool ur mind & dont react in any teazing word .always b good with others,even wit ur enemy.
2006-11-10 02:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋