I'm a 9 std student. I was 1st in my class till a girl came to my class.Teachers like her than me.my classmates hate her as she is rude to them and want me to be 1st. But I'm not able to. I feel disheartened and I hate her.She doesn't like others saying good about me and makes bad faces. I want to defeat her.What should I do?
2006-11-09 23:42:12 · 15 answers · asked by Neha Mathew 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Be kind to her; make friends with her. If both of you are smart, perhaps she will be first in the class at times and you will be other times. Education is not about being first; it is about learning.
2006-11-09 23:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Serendipity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not look at her as an enemy , ignore her facial gesture.
I think at one time you had no completion now you have, so face the completion, be a man.
Do not engage in name calling or compete in making faces, just do the best that you can.
Be polite even to her and the teacher, you must not fight the teacher, you just have to be polite, teacher is always right. All you can do is learn as much as you can from the teacher. Most of all do not say the teacher is favouring her, my teachers actually were cruel to me (some) they would once in a while grade the papers without looking at the name to see who is really the best.
Then, when I go to collect the papers, the teacher pulled out the paper of their favourite student, and re-grade mine, increase the grad on the other student and reduce the grade on mine, right in front of me. I never said a word, I was there to learn not to compete, ten years later I meet the teacher accidentally we just talked for a while I must take my hat of, teacher actually apologised, without explanation. I said it is OK. We shook hands and departed, it was the best victory of my life.
The other teach, actually change the order of seating once, so that I was not able to seat in the No. 1, student seat, that teacher also ran in to me, did not apologised but I could see that he did have repentance in the eyes, the teacher could hardly face me.
So I know what you are going through.
2006-11-10 09:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl sounds as if she's not above dirty tricks so watch your back. Remember that not all people in the world are good and not all people are going to like you. Another thing to learn is that no matter how good you are, someone better will always come along. Just keep working hard and if this girl is a freud it will show in no time at all. Good Luck Babydoll.
2006-11-10 07:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine to hear that u have been the best in ur class but the real problem started when the other girl came. so u put her thought aside and study as u did when she was not there think that u r the best. now from ur question i can read one thing
and don't get angry after reading this.
that u have become jealous of that girl and u want ur teacher to be good at u. u fear of her.
first get off that fear. be bold and be the same again. erase thoughts of that girl and don't heed to ur friends' comments. believe in u and u will succeed
2006-11-11 02:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by jonnyharry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never mix emotions and performance.. it might get very tough.. do not think abt her.. u go ahead as u would normally prepare and do your best. If there has been a dip in your marks after she has come, then this should work.
If on the other hand, you still score as much as you did earlier, but she tops you, then it means you have to put in more effort.
Analyse and decide which is the route to be taken.
2006-11-10 07:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Flashy V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi babe!!!
first of all never hate anyone. u want to be first in Ur class?? u want to be loved by all in Ur class? just be friend to that girl and try to know how she studying to get better marks?? she must be doing hard laboUr for it. U just do little hard labour then her in ever subject , clear ur doubt specially in science n maths.Be polite to everyone. U will she next time u will stood first in Ur class and when u became first then u will able realise that to hate anyone is not a good manner and u will lov to everyone will be loved by everyone.
best of luck.
2006-11-10 08:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by ramesh jha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Make a list in which you write down the subjects in which she gains more marks than you.
2. When you make that list, practice more on that subject.
3. Talk to her and ask her why she makes faces.
4. I know it is even hard to talk to her coz even I am in 8th and I have a similiar situation. I have a girl in my class who always compares her marks with mine. She gets more sometimes and I get more sometimes. There is stiff competition but I have to be friends with coz my mother and her mother are friends! I don't talk with her that often, just hi, bye, whaz up and stuff. But she always enjoys the cake in the final exams. Waha...
5. Try to study harder. Even I am doing that.
Good Luck to both of us!
2006-11-10 07:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I have the same problem in my class too..........
I just think of the girl as my competitor instead of my enemy.
Half the time I study because I think she is sitting at home and studying.
So,if u channel the hatred in a good way by studying more instead of wasting time cursing her U can stand first.
2006-11-10 08:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by The Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u should remove the eeling that u have to defeat her.bcos that's wrong.
what has happened if u can't stand first in the class.you r very lucky that ur friends are with u.and u r not rude.
think why ur teachers like her more than u.
and please remove hate from ur heart or u may lose all ur good qualities
2006-11-12 01:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by guessmaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u think her as afriend and try to compete with her. this is because with jealouse at others we cant be with peaceful of mind.then u try to competre with her . u have the talent but u your self thinking that she is talented. u think about ur friends and read sure u will get first
my best wishes to u
i wish u will be first from now onwards
bye
2006-11-10 07:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by swathi s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋