I am only 22yrs old and in the US Air Force and have been recently diagnosed with cancer of the brain and spinal cord. Apparently it is bad enough that I have to have an operation to have two of them removed from the bottom of my brain stem where it meets my spinal cord. I am also staioned in Okinawa, Japan so I am a very long ways from my home and family and I am more terrified than I have ever been. The doctors have discussed sending me to San Antonio, Texas for the operation because it is to delicate for then to want to do here. I am frightened, Is there anyone out there maybe even any cancer survivors who can offer any words of encouragement
2006-11-09 23:35:20 · 13 answers · asked by jerrycarter1984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, please know that you will be in my heart, thoughts and prayers.
Secondly, I copied & pasted your question (into a question from me) in the "Cancer" category, asking if anyone there would please try to find your question here and respond. You're right in asking for words of encouragement from people who have been through what you are going through.
If my plan goes right, people from the cancer category will find you here and respond. If my plan goes haywire - meaning, if you don't get any cancer patient & survivor answers here - then I would suggest that you go to the Health section, click on the category Cancer, and re-post your question yourself over there.
I'll make a point of checking back here a few times to see if you're getting any responses from cancer patients and survivors.
Meanwhile, as hard as it may seem, I beg of you to try to keep a positive outlook. Someone in here wrote to you about how negative thoughts can have a negative effect on cancer ... I've heard of that before. Someone else wrote about your evident courage due to the fact that you're a soldier in our Air Force ... I couldn't agree more.
And by all means, please - if you haven't already - be sure to let your family know what you are going through.
I'll be thinking of you.
2006-11-10 01:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by mutt_buffer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello Jerry,
I'm sorry your going through a tough time.
Below is a link to the American Cancer Society
http://www.cancer.org/docroot/home/index.asp
It's a good place to contact to find support and maybe get some of your questions answered.
You say you are in the armed services, see if your doctor can put you in touch with a psychologist. Talking about this will help you a lot.
Your young and you have your whole life ahead of you. Just take a deep breath and take it one step at a time.
I'll be thinking good thought for you.
2006-11-10 15:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This would frighten anyone. I have had several family members who suffered from several types of cancer. Different individuals react to treatments differently and they have so many new techniques there is hope for You!
You hang in there and be strong. I live just south of San Antonio and know they have some of the BEST medical facilities around. Wilford Hall is at Lackland AFB, and at Fort Sam, Brooks General is top notch. The Cancer Therapy and Research Center is also here, and only Anderson Hospital in Houston is more notable for the southwest area. You will be in good hands.
I also just finished reading from Joel Olstein where his mother was diagnosed with cancer, and only given weeks to live. She did not give up. She put her faith in God, and put it in his hands. Then she kept pictures of herself when she was healthy all around. Her thoughts were "never" that she would not be okay....only in time she would beat it and be fine. Well her outlook was good, her faith was in the Lord, and she is alive today and it's not over till it's over. Don't go throwing in the towel. Sometimes when things look their bleakest it is when we come to one of life's realization and a new awakening.
You are in my prayers. May God Bless You and hasten a healing for you.
2006-11-10 15:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sage 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi...my mom is a breast cancer patient.she is k nw...dun worry buddy!u ll b al ryt..i ll add u in my prayers.here r my tips on managing ur recovery in cancer...devolop hobbies n activities 4 ursev tt make u feel gud.treat each day as a new beginning.indulge in comedies.dun b ashamed.tell those around u that u r living wit cancer n ensure that they congratulate u 4 hving battled the disease successfully.tey ll admire u 4 ur endeavours.rebuilding confidence n bouncing back 2 active life n stay close 2 frends n family members who encourage positive attitudes in u.dont procrastinate.u hv another chance 2 live..ur whole life is ahead of u.the sky is the limit.make the most of being alive.may god bless u buddy.n plz let ur family noe bout it.
2006-11-10 00:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine what you're going through. However, I will agree that a positive attitude is key to surviving cancer. I also know from experience that it's very hard to keep a positive attitude when you're facing surgery of any kind. If you would like to talk out your feelings, or have a shoulder to lean on, feel free to email me at love2hugu2003@yahoo.com.
2006-11-10 02:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear of your diagnosis. I can only imagine how scared you are. Please know that attitude is everything when it comes to fighting cancer. It may seem like everything is spinning out of control, but you can choose your attitude. The best thing is to know that when we are at our weakest, Christ's strength is more than enough to see you through. Take a deep breath, and charge full force. My family and I will be praying for you. You can do this!
2006-11-09 23:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffani S 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have my compassion and sympathy
Make the most out of your living moments. Enjoy life. Stay calm. Whether we like it or not, life will come to an end. Do all you can possibly do and leave the rest of everything to God. Treasure every moment with your family. Don't be scared. Accept that you have it but do something about it.
2006-11-09 23:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Aristotle 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hi....my friends dad had throat cancer ..I searched on a lot of sites and i saw that theres this juice extract thing.
His wife read a book..I posted it below.
I know a girl who had cancer when she was 17..she survived. You will too. You're already brave, and you've proven it by joining the army. :)
2006-11-09 23:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by bipolarbear 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
make sure your family knows this stuff that you just told us. i will be praying for you even if i don't know you. it's ok. try not to panic. keep your mood happy and laugh alot because i have heard that if you are sad and depressed, your body releases a hormone that may make your organs not function normally. read funny books or watch comedies. ; D
2006-11-09 23:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
G'day champ, be brave amigo, prayin' 4 you for an speedy recovery....you'll be o.k.....you're a soldier...serving your country...and in need when required....you will fight and win this battle....good luck and hope all goes well......
Cheers from Down Under........
2006-11-10 01:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by AGS429 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋