2006-11-09 22:43:46 · 10 answers · asked by bibi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hunny, there is really only one thing you can do and that's tell someone. My grandfather sexually abused me when I was a very young child and it didn't stop until I spoke up. I'm going through hell myself right now ever since then though, so I'm here to tell you, this will be a hard decision for you. It takes a lot of courage, but it can be found, Be a strong woman and fight. You can't let them get away with this, who knows how long it will go on for if it's left. My heart goes out to you, be brave and do whats right
Good Luck Hunny
Rosie xx
2006-11-10 06:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think going to the police is not the solution because the damage has already been done. Prevention is always better than cure. So as a parent/ teacher/ guardian it is necessary that you talk openly about this ugly menace with children to protect them from sex abuse. Children must be taught to respect their own body and not allow anyone to touch their 'swimsuit' area.
They must be told that if anyone does anything inappropriate, they must immediately inform their parents/ guardian. Children may be too embarassed or ashamed to come out in the open if such an incident occurs, so it is necessary that parents assure them that it is not their fault in any way and they still love their child/ ward.
2006-11-10 07:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well-
it depends on each case of course.
But if its in your family then you say it to everyone at the dining room table and embarrass the Sh-t out of him.or her
let the adults handle things.from there.
If they already know then its best to try to remove the person from the situation.
tell a teacher or another adult friend who can help keep her safe.
and have a plan before action, speak to the department of social services, see what the process is for people in that state.
What the criteria is.
NEVER go in blindfolded, keep your eyes open, have a plan.
if this is for a friend then go with her and help her out.
sometimes a group home is the right way to go, but if your in a position to help her you might want to get her emancipated minor status. speak to your parents and see what they say.
And remember every case is individual so this is just ruff .ideas i'm throwing out there.
And Don't put yourself in Danger.stay safe, and make sure that before you do anything, she should try packing up a few things into boxes and bring them to your house inconspicuously like a bag a day or something. this way she isn't up sh-ts creek whith out a paddle, or anything else for that matter.
need to talk further
Kovasmomma@yahoo.com
Good luck.
2006-11-10 06:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their relatives need to be removed from the situation. Sexual abuse is one of the worst things that can possibly happen to a person, and if it isn't dealt with properly, it can ruin the rest of a child's life. The abusers definitely need to be dealt with by the law, immediately. They never change, and they never learn from their mistakes. Once a paedophile, always a paedophile.
2006-11-10 06:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by livingthelie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea id agree with the police there.... here ill give u the number its 911 or else available in ur local yellow pages just give them a call but the deal is u have to have proof or else ur just gonna end up kinda taking the shaft at the end of the long ride u just gave that someone trust me my dad hit me and he said i fell down the steps there wasnt any steps on the premises but the police believed him more than me.
2006-11-10 06:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by David V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
report them, noone sould be abusing anyone. the best thing to do is go to the police people like that should not be on the streets
2006-11-10 06:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By ringing the police and reporting them.
2006-11-10 07:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by friendly face 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with a gun
call the police, notify them of what has occurred
stop them fast before someone else<== get hurt
2006-11-10 06:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by timestamps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is only one way to stop them and that is by speaking out and reporting them to the police however hard it maybe.
there is no point trying to talk to them about it or asking them to stop cos this wont work.
you have to stop them by reporting them its the only certain way to stop it.
2006-11-10 11:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello? Police? I would like to report a crime.........
2006-11-10 06:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋