Do you find having a baby with someone you split up with brings you closer together? After you found out she had cheated...
2006-11-09 22:38:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The right thing to do would have been to be married before having a child. What chance does this child have now?
The other thing the use of the word cheated. If you weren't married then technically how could you cheat? I have a fifteen year old daughter that thinks when her boyfriend talks to another girl that is cheating.
Cheating is infidelity, having sex outside of the marriage.
2006-11-09 22:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real?
You must be young with no real experiance! If she cheated on You Once! What say You, is going to stop her from doing it again??? Not a baby! Seems to me the poor kid is going to be "used" for all the wrong reasons! I'd get a paternety test! just to cover Your azz! and after you find out if your the father, then make a decision based on how You really feel. And not just about the baby! Do You think You have the abillity to forgive the cheater? Can You honestly say You will learn to trust this person again with out any bad feelings? The road your getting onto is going to be a rough One! If I were You(Which thank God I'm not) I would buy a heavy duty bullet proof 4x4 with really loud tunes!
2006-11-09 22:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by patrick s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worried that your fella will get back with his ex because she is having his baby.
I don't think he will get back with her. How can he be sure the kid is his anyway? And staying with someone you don't love just "for the sake of the kids" may not be the best thing in the long run.
If she can move on and be happy, the kid will be happy. But if she is in an unhappy relationship, the kid may pick up on that.
If he does forgive her, and does still love her, you have to accept that and move on yourself. But it doesn't sound like that is the case. The kid will have two parents in two homes. You will get to see the kid sometimes too. If you treat it as if it were your own, that will improve everything no end.
2006-11-11 05:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by helen g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly for me it would split me up because who was to tell whos it was for sure? if it was mine bring me closer and i hope u wouldnt cheat again, if it wasnt probably split us up.
2006-11-09 22:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by David V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a father, I'm sick of seeing other peoples cavalier attitudes toward kids. Once you have a child, everything you do must be done for the benefit of that child. Trying to have a kid as a patch to fix a failing relationship is disgusting. Grow up, and do the rest of us a favor and get yourself neutered.
2006-11-09 22:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youn know these things happen in every relation. What matters is whether or not the person u are wid has risen from his/her mistakes and at the end of the day i definately accept my girl back if i knew she made a mistake but is ready to learn n rise from them.
Take care
2006-11-09 22:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first I'd slap the ho, then i would say no, children don't bring unhappy people together, just happy ones.
2006-11-09 22:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but i find the question silly
not really worth an answer
2006-11-09 23:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first I would get the child
get 100% custody of it
2006-11-09 22:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-11-09 22:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋