its been 7 months since my bestfriends betray me. i had a really tough time. i didnt have any friends cos they spread nasty rumors about me. so i have no one to talk to. i kept this on my own and i always didnt want to go to school cus i hate seeing them. the idea of suicide also crossed my mind almost all the time. i hated myself and everything in my life. i kept crying and crying for days,weeks and months too. everytme i see them, i get really nervous and feel like going away, and everytime i heard abt them, i feel really down. pls help me..
2006-11-09 21:19:03 · 17 answers · asked by thereshegoes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thanks guys. :) you guys really did help.. i thought that no one cares. :) may god bless all of you.. you dont noe how much i appreaciated it.. :)) thnksss... u guys are the best!
2006-11-10 16:11:39 · update #1
Im really sorry to hear about what you are going through. Believe me, many of us have been through it. Hold your head high and walk right on by. The best revenge is success. Laugh, live and love again. If they are not true friends, then they were never really freinds at all. Now you know what bad friends are...its time to set your standards and give someone else a chance to be a good freind to you. You deserve it. As you grow older, you will notice that many people are phoney, they lie and cheat and they will hurt you if you let them...but its important to not let that stop you from trusting other people BECAUSE if you are a good freind...then surely there is a good freind out there that needs you and is waiting for you. Good luck!!!! Remember, hold your head high, turn the other chick and smile :)
2006-11-09 21:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by metismaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really harsh and at the risk of sounding like a prat Im going to say it was female friends?? Teens (im guessing you are a teen) - can be really bitchy.
MY sob story - I had a similar thing where someone twisted something I had done and everyone thought I was a guy to pick on...
I took it for a couple of months but then I found a new friend. MY best advice to you is to go to school, TRY (i know its really hard) but TRY and keep your head high..
See if theres a boy that one of the girls likes, and go out with him for a while.. - I'm nasty I know.
Stay above them. Don't let them drag you down to their level Do you have myspace or anything? Or just message me if you like?
Hope I could help
2006-11-09 21:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Spike2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody on this earth is worth taking your life. Honey, there are always going to be people who are talking about you whether it is true or not.
Go on and live life. Make new friends. There is someone out there with the same feelings as you and when you find that one, you will be able to help each other. So just remember that your life is precious no matter what people think of you.
You will be able to help someone else with this same problem one day. Keep you head up.
2006-11-09 21:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make new friends. You can do this by being a whore or socializing with many new "cool" kids. Second, learn good grammar. You cannot moved on but you can move on. Third, please stop typing faces..:( its kind of depressing and nobody wants that. Lastly, good luck and remember you are not a loner, yahoo is always here to help ;).
2016-03-28 01:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
commiting suicide is not an answer girlfriend!! Wake up and smell the coffee those people are not really your friends if they go around spreading rumours about you. You know who you are, keep your head up and ignore them. Make new friends and carry on with your life.
2006-11-09 21:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Maphondo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously valued you friendship with them, but let me tell you something, "they betrayed you" you did not, don't hate yourself. instead be proud of who you are and maybe they were jealous of you and you did not know so this was the way of puling you down. so don't make them happy and regret yourself, i understand it will take time but take a good look at yourself and think deeply and i promise you you will find comfort from within yourself. jealousy is what breaks most friendships, but you can never be jealous of your own self, so wipe your tears, be the best friend of yourself and move on with your life.
GOOD LUCK.........
2006-11-09 23:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by sweetberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find some friends who'll treat you right and not do those things. If your friends would do that to you, then their not really your friends to begin with. Just move on and ignore them.
2006-11-09 21:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey life is long , there for u to enjoy, so just move on and try to make some new better friends who care for u and understand u
2006-11-09 23:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by engr_ehsen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly, they won't care about you cried or upset, would they?
I think you must be act like normal with nothing in front of them, so that you're more confidence.......I am also your type....for me,I can found friends everywhere besides them......just be confidence
2006-11-09 21:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh ur feeling exactly how i am.. haiz hey do u need a fren u cn always email me ok.. mayb ur jus to close to her tt u cn nvr forget abt.
2006-11-09 21:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by ifah ayu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋