i have a gf now, and i don't want to hurt her, but it feels like that i'm not the right guy for her.. how can i tell her? pls help!!!
2006-11-09 21:04:50 · 13 answers · asked by sizzle4217 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just tell her, be honest, it will be better to hear it that way than be left hanging and getting mixed messages..u dont hav to tell her that u dont love her anymore..just tell her that u feel that she deserve someone better...honesty..yes works better.
2006-11-09 21:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only a girlfriend, right? Are you afraid of something more than just hurting her? Ask yourself how sure you are; examine all the issues. Be absolutely sure it's the right decision. You must remember, it's next to impossible to take it back.
Even if you're sure, you might want to bide your time until you find another relationship that's stable and good for you. Mean as that is, I believe you have to take care of your own feelings first. You do not want to endure loneliness; it will make you crazy enough to want her back. Trust me, if you act on loneliness and attempt to win her back, you WILL know hell on Earth.
2006-11-09 21:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you worded it wrong - since your the one wanting to end it - it should say 'it feels like she's not the right one for me' how do I tell her?
If you've lost interest or found another, tell her now, don't play her along - it's not fair. Wouldn't you want to know if she wanted to be with someone other than you? Think how you would feel if things were reversed and act accordingly. Good luck
2006-11-09 21:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will suck either way but I have been that girl more than once and I wish he would have told me before EVERYONE but me knew.
By the time I realized it, he had been dating several other girls. I know I was extremely naive but growing up and dating is learning to become a man. Any girl you would date, deserves your honesty. Don't be "that guy". We don't need any more of those
2006-11-09 21:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her I am sorry but its just not working out, if she doesn't run away tell her your great but I just don't think I am the right guy for you. If it gets to heavy after that say we can still be friends or I love you like a sister and bam its done! Get up and walk away, maybe a hug if it permits or something.
-NmD!
2006-11-09 21:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The truth. Just tell what you feel. I know, it's easier said than done, but give it a shot.
2006-11-09 21:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by nemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are anything close to being manly, you could try telling her the truth, she might actually respect your honesty.
2006-11-09 21:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Wonderbra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to know is she seriously in love with u , if not then tell her
she will not get hurt
2006-11-09 21:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by engr_ehsen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth! Allways tell the truth, you & she will be thankful in the long run!!
2006-11-09 21:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by feather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say that to her.. Like that.. She will be hurt regardless... Try writing a sweet sorry poem and tell her gently...
Do it face to face
2006-11-09 21:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋