The strange thing is, I want to become pregnant in way, and I really do. But don’t you think it’s crazy because I don’t want to get married on this stage and I do have a BF, very nice, not sure his the one, but I won’t mind at all if he is the father of my child, I’ll just love it! Then it’s my parents, they will be so shocked if it happens… but I’ll be so happy! Everybody we know gets married and wait two years before they fall pregnant, but I’m always the odd-one out! Am I crazy? Every time I’m one/two days late with my period, I actually hope I’m pregnant! On the other hand I stress my *** off! I’m weird!
2006-11-09 21:03:07 · 13 answers · asked by confussie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its not crazy... But think if ur ready to be a mum.. I mean are u finacially stable? do u have a job? Does ur bf wanna baby? Will it affect the relatinship? Are you able to look after yourself and a baby? Can u look after yourself properly?
Do u want someone to love and to be loved back continualy and unconditionally..
Think about pros and cons... write a list perhaps
2006-11-09 21:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not crazy... but maybe your a bit selfish... what about the father??? and what about the child growing up without a family??? would like to know how old you are.... It's a difference in dreaming of something and actually doing it, plz remember that!
2006-11-10 05:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by sara 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not. But you have again think about this before you decide. You seem you are very eager to have a child. You should some times think rationally leaving your emotions and then you will get the answer.
2006-11-10 05:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until you are married. Then u can have a baby and enjoy it with your husband, that is what i did and my parents were proud of me i was happy i waited too.
2006-11-10 05:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Maphondo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you are! just think before assuming it would be fun
and it won't be your child, the child will be for both of you and you know what will happen if you break up with him since your not sure about him that much
2006-11-10 05:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by jast_im3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to grow up a bit, before having a child of your own.
-NmD!
2006-11-10 05:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you don't have a clue what you're in for. If my girlfriend said that about me I would run away and never look back.
2006-11-10 05:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its so natural,feeling of mum moves inside you,love babies,care of them is most beautiful thing in the world other that no humanity.
2006-11-10 05:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by lostship 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not crazy... but just a little bit worring too much. just be natural. i'm sure your baby would come when time is right.
2006-11-10 05:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by humourhumor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-10 07:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋