I am still very much in love with my ex. Even though he is now married. To me he is perfect and I compare every guy to him. I am afraid I will never meet anyone as good as him. Please help!
2006-11-09 20:40:45 · 15 answers · asked by met_expectaions 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, he's a married man now. Might as well move on. Even if you never meet anyone as good as him, nothing you can do. Listen, one guy can't be better that the whole world. Lighten up and move on.
2006-11-09 20:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be still in love with your ex, but as for thinking that he is perfect, and that you will not meet anyone as good as him. You need to stop that right now. I don't mean to be harsh, but if he was so perfect the two of you would still be together, and you wouldn't have broken up in the first.
You may still have feelings for your ex, but you really need to close that chapter of your life and move on, he obviously is no longer thinking about you and has moved on considering that he is now married. You are probably just scared of putting yourself out there again, but you need to, and whatever you do, do not compare your next boyfriend to your ex, because if you do the relationship will not get started, and you could be letting your true perfect partner disappear out of your life
2006-11-09 20:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. Stop comparing as no one can ever be the same as anyone else not even 1. You need start loving someone as the person he is because love is about accepting each other. If you loved someone, I am sure you are capable to open your heart to someone else as well. Put aside your past, and accept the present and welcome the new things that come along including the guys that you meet. Past is to cherish and present is to live. Let it go and open yourself to the new person tat comes in , you may find it much better. The thing is just within you to make everything more special in life.
2006-11-09 20:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!
If u really love him so much y let him go b4?
Now, he's married, so pls wake up n let him go.
U should look forward n go on with ur new life, u might find a better guy than him. U might not meet ur future love now but u sure to meet a guy who love u even more in future.
So cheer up ^_^
I'm oso trying to 4get the past n go on wif my life now....
2006-11-09 20:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by mel80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is now married. So u just forget him. I know u mate noone as him. But it's life. So go ahead. May be a better future will be wait for u. Time is the best medicine & it works. Best of luck.
2006-11-09 20:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Roja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will meet someone better. He is already married so forget it. Only proves you're not meant to be together. Open up your heart and you will surely find someone who is even more worthy of your love :)
2006-11-09 20:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by Muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont ever meet anyone good enough until you change your attitude. hes moved on and got married. and believe me if you was married to him you probably would soon realize he wasn't all that. just go out and have fun, if someone comes along then thats ok but dont go out looking for someone.
2006-11-09 20:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not as perfect as you think, just unattainable. Find someone who is single and quit comparing. If it was just the sex, buy something warm and fuzzy until you find the right guy.
2006-11-09 20:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing he is a perfect man,you should not have let him off you hook.well, since he is married now,meaning that you have lost him,try and open up your mind to accept another man into your life.i want you to understand that JESUS is/was the only perfect man on earth.
2006-11-09 20:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, someone out there Is for you. 2nd of all, ur ex must love the woman enough to marry her.
The guy for u will come along, no rushing...give yourself time.
2006-11-09 20:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋