Last year i Lost 3 very good friends in a tragic car accident... Today is there 1 year anniversay and although the time has flown the grief and shock of loosing them is still raw!!
All i ask today is you read the links attached and say a prayer for there family and friends (if your beleive of course).
I will be visiting the crash site tonight at that vital hour it happend with a print out of all responses to bring strenth to his family/friends.
Thank you for your time and if you decide to reply your two points have been worthwhile!!!
http://iccheshireonline.icnetwork.co.uk/0100news/chesterchronicle/tm_method=full%26objectid=16384592%26siteid=50020-name_page.html
http://iccheshireonline.icnetwork.co.uk/0100news/chesterchronicle/tm_method=full%26objectid=16385517%26siteid=50020-name_page.html
2006-11-09 20:32:07 · 15 answers · asked by Cat ( " , ) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
awww bless. hope everything is ok.
2006-11-09 20:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and all the people that felt the loss of your three friends have been prayed for. Losing someone is hard enough, when it's so tragic and sudden it's even harder to get past - been there. Time will heal the pain, thank God for the memories you have that will always remain. Going forward, remember the things you didn't maybe take time to say or do with those friends and now can't and make sure to not do the same with your present friends and families. You will be blessed each time you take that extra effort to share, love, express, spend time. May God's peace be with you.
2006-11-09 21:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi darlin' round 29th November each year I remember a friend who died on his motorbike. Each year, I remember, but the mourning does get better.
Bluntly mourning is normal, if you must, cry, remember the good times, and cry a bit more. You have the RIGHT to your feelings! In the doing, you indeed celebrate your friend's life while also grieving. I think of it this way...
There is no time limit on grieving, no "gettin over with it," we just learn to live with it, and in time the focus shifts to good memories...
In my case, Dale on his motorbike, Dale smiling, and our good times, drinking and partying.
Like the time I stopped and bought his favorite when he was skinned. I put his behind me, walked in and took a swig of mine. Then pulled his out... The way his eyes lit up. Oh the good times!
Cherish those memories, let the grief work itself out, and don't let anyone stop you!
Dale was born in 29 November, me November 11, the next year. He on that Bike will always remain in my mind. And yes, he did have a proper helmet! And was sober, on his way to work. Some things can not be helped.
A
2006-11-12 19:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you this dec.27 will be 4 yrs since I lost "the love of my life" Some folks never finish grieving everyone suffers and deals in their own ways I know for a fact that I will never love again every day i open my eyes to live another day i cuss knowing that it's going to be that much longer till i get to him may the godess bless you and watch carefully over you
goodnite
2006-11-11 19:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sad hun, i suppose in some ways at least they died together if one of them had survived the other one would have felt guilty forever, I'm sure they wouldn't want people to keep grieving for them rather to celebrate them as people and as a couple. I hope you all stay strong xx
2006-11-09 20:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never mourn the passing of someone you have loved. Rather celebrate their life. Some may think it is disrespectful to sing and dance and laugh and play on a day like today, but it is what they would have wanted. Yes miss them, yes love them, but don't be sad for them, it only makes them sad. Rejoice in the fact that they had life at all!
2006-11-09 20:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by chickyboo222 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grief is very difficult to deal with esp as they were so young. Sorry to hear about your loss, hope you manage to think of the happy memories too. Thoughts are with you. x
2006-11-09 20:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that their spirits are around you all the time helping you through the grief and giving you strength to carry on as normal as possible.
2006-11-11 10:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by auntiebitsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the anniversary of my parents deaths and that of my best mate, i release a balloon, filled with love,and a special message attached,
and always remember how lucky you were to have known them and that they played a part in your life,
2006-11-09 20:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by dididdleydihi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soo sorry for your loss, their with God now and acting as HIS Angels. Honey, I hope you're okay to go on with your day.
My condolences and prayers are with you.
2006-11-09 21:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am from ellesmere port and i remember reading this when it happened.
I feel so sorry for your loss, and i am so sorry for your loss.
For this to happen to two such beautiful and radiant young people , and for them to have their lives cut so drastically short it makes me so angry.
i will say a prayer tonight
2006-11-09 20:42:59 · answer #11 · answered by UkDancing_Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋