well i will travel on sunday...for studying reasons...i have been married for 2 monthes....i am dying to spend more time with my husband...but i feel he is neglecting that...on the contraray he is doing other things that sitting and talking to me..even he used to have lunch with me everyday...but today he didnt want to come...i told him...that i will be travelling on sunday...how that he doesnt want to spend every minute with me...well after i begged him,,,he said ok...i will come,,,,but really i feel shocked...i feel that he doesnt love me that much...and i feel he wont miss my presence and that my absence wont bother him...from my experience if u love someone and he will leave so soon...you will dying to spend the remaining time in his arms...but his attitude is very strange...so what do u think...
2006-11-09 20:29:37 · 6 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop your studying for a few months, so you won't have to travel and spend time with him.
2006-11-09 20:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Vas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have issues in his mind, he could have problems at work. He could be cheating on you. It is very soon after your marriage but that's how i see the situation. Don't accuse him though. The best think you could do is tell him you will be happy if he shared what was going on. Ask hi if he has problems. Tell him he can trust you no matter what. I don't know the reason for your marriage, but if it was love that brought you together, tell him you are his wife and you will always support him and he can tell you anything. Provoke him to tell you what's in his head.
2006-11-10 04:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dobbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too early to comment. Watch his attitude for some time. You do not have any major issue now. I agree it feels bad to be ignored.
2006-11-10 04:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is when he has work you have free time, when you have work he has free time. Sunday may be free for him and you do not. Find a suitable time for both to be together. Problem solved.
2006-11-10 04:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's only been two months and this is going on then you need to go ahead and discuss this with him before it becomes serious. MAKE HIM LISTEN
2006-11-10 04:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing serious about that.
u be loving to him more , all will settle
2006-11-10 04:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋