2006-11-09 19:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by sweety_8402 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it depends on how much it upset you. If you can get over it quite quickly then just leave it but if it is worrying you a lot or if your friend does things to upset you quite often then you need to tell them or the chances are you won't stay friends!!! I had this problem once with my best friend (friends for 25 years now since we first started high school) I couldn't tell her face to face so I sent her a letter and this worked really well, we managed to sort things out properly. The thing with a letter is that you can say things that you may not be able to say face to face and the person receiving it has to listen cos they are reading every word and can't just "zone out" when they don't like what is being said. Good luck xx
2006-11-09 21:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by manc red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. Sometimes i will just keep my mouth shut and don't even want to mention about it anymore. but depends. if i want to tell them, of course i am not going to thell them on the same day. it may be worse. Maybe after few days i cool down, i will talk to the person nicely about what he/she has done that make me upset.
2006-11-10 04:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always tell your friend. If they really are your friend, they will understand, and hopefully either help you understand why they made the choice they did, or try to change their behavior. If they get mad back at you.. it is time for a new friend.
2006-11-10 03:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by debilee66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to cool down and think more rationally, and then tell them. Be prepared to apologize if you realize you are the one who is wrong.
2006-11-10 03:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i'm angry at that moment, i wont tell them how i feel. I tell them about my feelings of hurt or anger have subsided so that i could think rationally.
2006-11-10 04:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by MissTaray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what happend.my best friend had sex with 2 of my ex boyfriens.yeah i was pissed and i kick her ***.but just talk to her about it.if she messed around with your man.you dont need her.but me and my friends are cool know ,its been 5 yesrs ,and we r kinda there.so give it a chance
2006-11-10 03:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by kristi c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on is this how they normally act r what. is it seriouse r not. If not let it go isf it is u might want 2.
2006-11-10 05:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should tell because friendship is based on honesty and trust...so if u really are good friends u should say wht it is and she/he would understand
2006-11-10 05:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by yara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not on the first day. But when i do cool down i let him know.
2006-11-10 03:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, donn't take time it disturb u.So go and talk to him.u feel very happy.
2006-11-10 04:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by sunil_panday19666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋