well i have been married for two monthes...and for study reasons i have to travel for 4 monthes...so how can i manage a long distance with my husband...although i feel my love for him is much much more than what he feels towards me...so what do u think...
2006-11-09 19:39:07 · 13 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For me works www.fling.com
2006-11-09 19:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very carefully! I speak from experience.
Use the phone (I used to have phone bills that were double the cost of my car payment), use the internet, whatever you need to do to keep in touch. Daily if possible. Is it possible to spend long weekends together? 4 months is really not that long... and you are already married so that should take some presure off the dilemma of "Will this work or not?"
You say that you feel that your husband does not love you as much as you love him. Many guys are not that comfortable with expressing how they feel. It may be awkward for him to say it on the phone or type it in an e-mail than it is for him to express it when you are usually around.
2006-11-09 19:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by anon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Caramella.....Ok, this one is a no brainer hun. First of all, you 2 have only been married for 2 months. Now, with that being said I am sure you told him that you would have to go away for a few months because of your studies. If you in fact told him this then he knew when he married you what he was getting himself into and what he was gonna have to deal with. If he really loves and cares about you then he would respect the fact that you are trying to better yourself and thus being the reason for you being away for several months. The one thing I cant understand is why you decided to get married knowing you were gonna have to go away for a bit. See, you should of put this whole marriage thing aside until you were done with your studies. Because without marriage in the way there is no obligation and you wouldnt have to worry so much while your away. In a nut shell, if he loves you and cares about you not only will he be understanding but he will be loyal to you and will be waiting for you when you return. Best of luck.............
2006-11-09 20:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by D.J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiancée and I met online twelve years ago, and even though we didn't start officially dating until I moved to NYC, we basically acted like a couple. Really, for me, the worst part of it was not being able to hold her and touch her, but in all other ways, it was wonderful. We would talk for hours upon hours each day on the phone and online, text throughout the day, and we always had something to talk about. Things never got stale an instead of doing things, we talked to each other about the things that we would do when we got to be together in person. Our love for each other was so strong that when I moved there, it was really easy to transition into officially dating. For us, it just... worked. Like I said, the hardest part was not getting to see her and missing her so badly and not being able to do the things people usually do in relationships, but the emotional strength was incredibly strong. We spent our time learning everything we could about each other and became strong emotionally. If you want to ask some specific questions about international travel, feel free to email me at any time. I spend a lot of time internationally travelling. For Canada, you'd need a passport, and depending on where the area he lives, it can either seem very similar to the US, or more similar. Again, if you have any specific questions, feel free to message me.
2016-05-22 02:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually someone cares more for the other.
From my experience, after 5 months at distance I was wondering if we're still together. Then we broke up - he wanted it. 3 hours later he had another girl.
Did it wort it? Now I think it didn't.
2006-11-09 19:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anais 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is blind bcuz it stays in our heart.
therefore, keep ur love clean and transparent. as a husband and wife, trust is a pillar of relationship.. and dont simply assumed he doesn't love u, dear.
emails, video call, webcam and lots of thing has been invented just to bring your loved one closer. sometimes, do send him ur handwritten letter and expect him to do the same.
just dont get sad honey.... i have a friend who had a worst cases than urs. his girlfriend went abroad and never come back. she died in an accident a year ago. and my friend still love her, as much as she still alive.
appreciated what u have and for who have u. good luck!
2006-11-09 19:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by lilbabylin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months is nothing if you are already married. It will go quick. Just stay busy and it will be over before you know it.
2006-11-09 19:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say, it doesn't work 99% percent of the time. Time and time i see relationships not working. I tried it twice and failed. Just give up and stay local. You know that term out of sight out of mind?
2006-11-09 19:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being over phone or net is one of the option to be in touch.
besides be good to each other whenever together and spend some quality time to make it memorable for long time.
2006-11-09 19:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in touch,nowadays we have mobiles der,text him daily and call from time to time.Dont show him too much that ur dying without him,this could drag him away,but if ur married u still have 99.999% chances on ur side.nothing to worry except do keep in touch and concentrate on ur studies,4months will go vry quick
2006-11-09 19:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋