If you ask a girl if she wants jewlery this holiday season and she STRONGLY enforces the fact that she does not, is she lying and secretly saying she does?
2006-11-09 19:08:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
she's not lying
2006-11-09 19:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by 2K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She clearly doesn't want it. I'm the same, I really don't love jewelry and the reason I would never want anyone to get me some is because I'm so picky that the chances of me liking what they got me is like .0001% chance. I wear it sometimes but I think that it's such a taste type of thing that you can't just assume that if it's shiny that she'll like it. I hate cheesy or too flashy jewelry and she's probably thinking the same type of thing. So rather than not hurting your feeling by not wearing some cheesy jewelry you got her, she just prefers you not get anything. I can't stand most of the jewelry people wear, I think it's so ugly!!!!! It makes sense, don't get any for her.
2006-11-12 05:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you notice her wearing jewerly? If you do then chances are she is lying, but if she doesn't really wear jewelry then I would say she is telling the truth. I am not a huge fan of jewelry myself. I have nver had a ring that fit my finger properly and uncomfortable and hardly even wear earrings anymore. I do like to wear my watch on ocassion. So no not all women like jewelry.
2006-11-10 13:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by hehmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I do. Regardless of what she 'Mean", If she said no jewelry, than get her no jewelry. This way you are not trying to read her mind and she can't get mad at you because she said no jewelry. Next time she wants something she will learn to come out and ask for it. We men are not mind readers and should not have to put up with this nonsense. Be a man!
2006-11-09 19:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by minion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she usually wears jewelry, then maybe she does secretly want it. If she doesn't usually wear it (except for special occasions) or she just has a few simple pieces, then she really may not care for it.
Not all women care for jewelry. I don't.. never have. I'd prefer something less superficial... something more original.
2006-11-09 19:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love jewlery but never get any and the jewlery I have I don't wear go figure!
2006-11-10 15:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Viri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a personal thing. if she wears a lot of jewelry all the time, she is most likely lieing. however if she wears none to very little, then she is most likely telling the truth.
i would go with not getting her jewelry. if she really doesn't want it, you'll come across as the type of guy who doesn't listen if you get her jewelry.
2006-11-12 05:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ambino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know really, it depends on the woman. I personally don't like wearing a lot of jewelry.
2006-11-09 19:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am not really into the stuff, lol, all i wear is the same peaces of earrings for years now:) i don't like rings and stuff (find them not comfy), so in other words, not all woman are that into it:) i rather prefer someting else for XMars:) (a car;)).
2006-11-09 19:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by VeronicaB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she knows u cant afford it, then she will deny the fact that she wants jewellery, but may really want it, but she does it so that she doesnt become a burden on you. and if u ASK her then she willl definetely say no... but she loves surprises!!
2006-11-09 19:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if she she has said it several times as strongly as you say then i wouldnt get her any. it does a ctually sound like she doesnt want some.
2006-11-09 22:43:25 · answer #11 · answered by Roo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋