As I am a Full FIgured Woman, what would be a more comfortable way for me to get my man in the mood?

Answer 1

Sheesh, I can't believe the childish comments some people post here.

I would advise u to just be who u are. U don't have to feel insecure. Your man loves u the way u are otherwise he wouldn't be with u. Often times we are our own worst critics but I can tell u that there's nothing sexier to a man than a woman who's confident with herself.
So just go for it and don't worry about a thing.

Answer 2

You need to feel the freedom to "do" whatever you are in the mood to do. Your body type is secondary. When a woman is in the mood, whatever her particular body type, men usually pay attention. Just turn the lights down and do whatever you think might work. Plan it ahead and get the mindset and then just go for it. I'm trying to be tasteful here because I know what you are feeling. I'm just saying you can do whatever those malnourished pitiful little skinny girls can do. Just take your time and do it in a way you are comfortable with. In fact, just make it about you, forget about him. Just decide you are simply going to use him for your own purposes and do so. I will guarantee he will not object and you won't need to worry about getting him in the mood. It is every man's dream to have a woman take control. Don't worry about him. He'll get with the program. Full figured women are beautiful too. And again, it's more about how you feel about yourself than anything else. If you are feeling like catwoman then act like catwoman. He'll get the message.

Answer 3

what does being full figure got to do with getting him in the mood??????????????????? i think if you got in the mood would be a good start and then show some body men love to see skin and stop with the pity the poor me am fat thing. Men are turned on by full figured women if he is not then you need to leave and find a real man, hey just look me up.

Answer 4

I would ask you to define full figured. If you are a little overweight then no problems. If your weight has become a serious health issue you are in the danger zone. If your weight is really to the point that is a serious health issue consider this:
How is he suppose to be in the mood when he looks at you he sees the love of his life shortening her own quality of life and lenght of life. Is he not suppose to be sad and concerned about this? I would be. If you had cancer and there was nothing you could do about it that would be one thing. If you are morbidly obese that is in your control.

I am not talking about twenty pounds here.

Your health and his mood are connected and should be don't you think?

Answer 5

If he is your man he should love you the way you are if not find a guy who is into full figured woman they are out there I saw a show about it.

Answer 6

First let me apologize for the immature cracks from the little boys who answered earlier. Then as to your question, honey you do the same things all the rest of the women in the world do. So you're full figured, that doesn't make you any less attractive or sexy than any other women. I'm sure your Husband would agree, after all he is with YOU ! Don't let other peoples narrow opinions make you feel less about yourself. Beauty starts from inside and shines its way to the outside, so let yours shine. You are beautiful.

Answer 7

Hi there!!

A nice candle lit massage is always a good way to get romantic. You might want to try picking up some aromatherapy massage oil, putting on some soft music and lighting a few scented candles. It gets my husband in the mood all the time! And you and your man can take turns massaging each other too. Hope this helps!! :)

Answer 8

Hi Jennifer.....Well, let me just say this....If your man loves you, cares about you and is really into you and everything about you then it shouldnt take much at all to get him in the mood. Just seeing you walk into the room everytime should put him in the mood. Just being able to see you, hold you and kiss you should put him in the mood. Now, I know that even with all that being said some relationships may need a little more to go on to just spice'n things up a bit and thats cool. If anything, just try to be spontaneous in whatever you decide to do. A man loves a woman who can be spontaneous especially when it comes to getting him in the mood. Guys are suckers for women in beautiful lingerie and surprise massages. Oh yeah, and when you are all dressed up in your sexy lingerie and your straddling his back rubbing baby oil all over him with long strides, keep in mind that men love it when their woman takes control of everything. You have to be the one to set the pace of the evening and anything that goes on. You might even want to talk to him in somewhat of a sexy manner. For instance, when you are lying on his back whisper in his ear and ask him what it is he wants you to do. Love every inch of him just like he would love every inch of you. Do things to him that you would want done to you. Like, giving him kisses on the back of his neck and maybe even giving him slow wet kisses down his back and down his leg and then turn him over and well....use your imagination,,,im sure you can come up with what comes next. Well, I hope I was able to help you somewhat....Its all about being in control and spontaneous. Good luck hun............

Answer 9

Listen to DJB - he's awesome. Ignore the little mature boys who were rude.
Of course, you just need to be comfy in your own skin and have confidence - size doesn't matter! There are plenty of skinny little girls who have LOTS of trouble with men and sex - all you have to do is read some of the questions on here. Just remember there is more of you to love, and when you love yourself, he will too.

Answer 10

i think you dont need a way you need a man like me
you are such a sexy lady i never lose the time for searching the way to get laid try me i bet