2006-11-09 18:53:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yep, probably most have. It's sad, but close friends always let you down at least once.
2006-11-09 18:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by RegularMan99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother abandoned me as an infant and I never saw her again until I was 24. I pretty much died inside from that day forward and can no longer trust anyone, including myself.
My first real girlfriend told me she'd love me forever. She lied. Broke my heart, almost felt happiness and trust again, but never since.
I tried to save another girl her from her family, but when the cops came, she chose them over me, changed her story, and I got threatened with arrest instead of the real abuser. I assumed saving her was good for a lifetime of loyalty, not three minutes. Boy was I an idealist at 19.
Since then I would've dated anyone who liked me, no question, no qualifications necessary. Stayed with some awful person for 10 years.
Now I have a lovely wife. I also have self-respect and criteria for what kind of woman I want. If I ever have to find another it will be a whole other ballgame.
2006-11-09 19:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is a life lesson and how you handle it will tell how much you have learned. When I was young I handled this very badly and regretted it and now if and when it happens I try to see it from the other viewpoint. Realise I was responsible for being friends or whatever with this person and decide to forgive or not. Either way I now keep my self respect about the whole thing.
2006-11-09 19:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Dianetics Works 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone who has ever been betrayed it was by someone close. Otherwise it isn't a betrayal. But I know what you mean and yes I have. One betrayal is enough. Once it happens that person is no longer trusted. If it's a family member, then they lose whatever faith I ever had in them.
2006-11-09 18:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by RIDLEY 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Never in my life time by a man.But I have been betrayed by my own MOTHER.I disowned her over 6 months ago and will never be able to in my heart forgive her.Her actions affected my life and the life of my kids.Unforgivable.
2006-11-09 22:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been betrayed by someone and it hurts coz she's my friend.
2006-11-09 19:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by hopeless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i took my ex-boyfriend on a vacation he wanted and he cheated on me while there. to add insult to injury the guy he cheated with was 5' 5" 250 pds and schitsophrenic. he had no job, no car, no apt. he slept on a friends floor, and my moron left me for him........but karmas a ***** 3 months later the new beau wigged out destroyed all my ex's stuff and wound up in an institution leaving my ex homeless :)
2006-11-09 21:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-11-09 19:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life people will let you down, you have to look at them as lessons learned. it is how life goes if you close yourself off from everyone to protect your self from getting hurt then you will miss out on the joys of life also.
2006-11-09 18:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by naomi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in high school my younger sister went out with a guy she knew I had a big crush on.
2006-11-09 18:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋