AND MY HUBBY DOSENT KNO, HOW DO I KNO 4 SURE!?????HELP
2006-11-09 17:43:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
its not that i want 2 cheat.... i feeel that women have beautiful bodys thats not wrong.......
2006-11-09 17:51:41 · update #1
Well, its normal for someone to be curious about memebers of the same sex. You might want to have a sit down with your husband- just remember that while he might get excited about seeing you with another woman, he'll be angry if theres another penis involved ok?
By the way, every married couple I've met who've been "swingers" have gotten divorce. This is serious, so be carefull what you do- someones gonna get hurt emotionally. Good Luck
2006-11-09 18:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have to think about it, then your probably not bisexual. You would know if you were or not. Now if your questioning yourself then you need to find a support group. Not a support group to convert you, but one to be accepting and loving if you are. Because your husband may or may not accept it himself. A wonderful organization is PFLAG. Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. You may say, I am not a Lesbian and I am not Gay either. Well Girlfriend it is more complex than you realize. You can check out PFLAG's website and they have meetings all around the country. I would contact PFLAG if nothing else and just email them and ask them to send you some information on bisexuality. They will do this for free. Here is their website.
http://www.pflag.org/
2006-11-10 02:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married IS your husband your best friend? If you cannot talk about anything to him then you are in trouble... I agree that if you are married you are in a committed relationship it dosent matter if you are Bi or not because you are married... If something ever happens that you are no longer married then you could explore this deeper
2006-11-10 01:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by admiredi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, make sure that he knows while you are bisexual you would never cheat on him. If he loves you and you are both loyal to each other then he should have no problem accepting the news.
2006-11-10 02:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to find out for sure, you will have to commit adultery. You are married and married people shouldn't go out and have sex with other people. Doesn't matter if it is with a woman or a man.
Think about the implications of your 'finding out' if your bisexual. Your husband will find out eventually and you will lose your husband. Is it worth that?
2006-11-10 01:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not going to cheat then why does it matter so much?? Everybody in the world has some degree of homosexual feelings in them...maybe you just discovered yours...no big deal if you are planning to keep things as they are.
2006-11-10 02:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a heterosexual married woman with constant lesbian fantasies. I have no desire to act on them because of how it would screw my life up.
Perhpas you could find something that lets you explore the fantasy without actually stepping it into the world of reality and consequences?
2006-11-10 09:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAve u ever almost approached a female in that way. Do or have you already become intimate with your best girlfriend. Well u already know the answer
2006-11-10 01:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling concerning this cause this type of problem can get out of hand. Just thinking and not committing to your desires means you are alright, do something about the desire.
2006-11-10 01:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's your husband you should be able to trust him with your deepest thoughts. Oh, and like others mentioned, if you want to be intimate with men and women then you're bi by most people's standards.
2006-11-10 02:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋