Okay I have a wonderful boyfriend named Sean, he treats like i have always wanted a boy too LOL well sometimes he is goof and he can be *** LOL but anyways. One nite I got so hammered I mean i hadn't been so drunk in a while and my so called friend took advantage of it and we had sex. OMG the worst like i ever done in my whole Life. I mean i didn't want to happen so i stopped before i blew. MUST HAVE came to my sense and passed out. Well after hours of crying and telling him the whole story too my surprise he didn't break up with me and a few months now and it seems we are back to normal. But after hurting him the way i did and trying to make things better i worry. But i have been a playfully jealious bf threwout the whole relationship. Sean never does anything to make me worry and i don't think i have ever doubted that he loves me and only wants me. I just hate him being around this one boy, that walks away from sean when i come around and he came out to sean before he knew about us
2006-11-09 17:11:09 · 7 answers · asked by subarubatmanboy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Its bother you because you are afraid that he might cheat you and use the fact that you sleep with others as an excuse to cheat.Or worse he find someone better and break up with you using that reason.
Its always will be a black dot in your relationship.But he would forgive you means that he will forget it eventually.So,you should not let your insecurity get into your relationship
2006-11-09 17:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as far as what happened between you and this so called friend when you were smahed it wasn't your fault and you did stop it and explained it to your boyfriend. he could probably tell you were really upset by what had happened and that is why he did not break up with you. he obviously loves you a great deal and only wants to be with you. but as far as you being jealous of thios other boy that is hanging around Sean, i would be jealous too and i would ask sean if this guy likes him or not and if there is anything you need to be worried about. if he tells you that yes or no the about the guys attraction to Sean but that there is nothing to worry about then tell him that you believe and trust him and let it go. but if Sean gets really mad and throws a fit and brings up the other thing that happened with you and that guy then you need to be cautious. basically honesty,trust and communication are the things to remember while in a relationship.TTFN.
2006-11-09 17:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You question why he stayed with you after you got hammered and you think that you don't deserve him loving you because of it. You say you don't think you "have ever doubted that he loves me and only wants me".
The only thing going on is that you feel guilty about what happened when you were hammered and feel that he has something to hold over you because he forgave you and are looking for something to hold over him so you feel that relationship is 'equal'. You do have a wonderful boyfriend, but if you do not stop your 'playful' jealousy you could lose him. You have what is known as a 'keeper', someone who forgives you for your mistakes because he loves you that much. Don't let your jealousy screw it up.
2006-11-09 17:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so jealous aswell i know my bf would never cheat on me but when this new gay guy started at this work i was in there everyday making it known he has a bf. But i'm ok with the new guy now well he's not new there any more been there atleast 6 months but anyway. I grew out of it so hopefully it may go away... Good luck!
2006-11-09 17:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by cartoonhero55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you. If you're confident in your man, then trust him. He forgave you, after all so he shouldn't use that against you. If not, then find someone else.
2006-11-09 17:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you look hot. if he doesn't get over it, call me.
2006-11-09 17:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't let it bother you...he's made his choice for now..
2006-11-09 17:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋