There is this girl that i like who has a bf. She is 16 and he is 19. HE asked Her to marry him. what can i do to stop this?
2006-11-09 17:10:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I live in Texas What r the rules for dating like that
2006-11-10 03:02:06 · update #1
You cant really do anything, if she doesnt want to marry this guy (which he is her boyfriend, she obviously has some feelings towards him) but if she doesnt want to marry this guy, she has to make that decision on her own. If she loves you, or likes you, and wants to be with you, she will break up with her boyfriend or not marry him, and be with you. Dont try to change her mind, let her decide and if she picks him, you're better off without her and you could find some other girl who does love you, cares for you, and wants to be with you. There are tons of girls out there, just find a good honest genuine one. Good luck. btw..if it is meant to be, it will be.
2006-11-09 17:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You 2 can get married in case your mom and father signal the consent varieties. there is the chuffed answer. Now for a dose of actuality. A. in case you 2 do get married there's a strong probability the state will come and take the baby because no count number how a lot you 2 "love" each and every-different, he's now in reformatory and could be always categorized a pedophile or a rapist. B. an excellent majority of those who were given married at your age are divorced. At 14 you aren't to any extent further everywhere mentally or emotionally waiting to be a spouse, and to be straightforward, a mom. i understand it sounds like you're in love, and also you may want to argue all day lengthy that you're, yet that's the actuality... Marriage isn't all chuffed endings and fairy memories. Take it from someone whose been there. i might want to strongly propose giving the baby up for adoption and taking the time to be a classic youngster, playing your acquaintances, courting adult men your man or woman AGE, and getting your finished practise. or you may want to study the word "do you need fries with that" and persist with it.
2016-10-16 08:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by eth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her parents alow her to get married...now that is what is messed up. Not the fact that she would want to , because teens are known for being quick to act on emotions/harmones. But if her parents allow it I would b concerned then. You should talk to her parents to find out thier stand on this. then act on it. I do believ it is still statutory rape in most states when the youth is under the age of 18. I would report it to the police if she was involeved with him in a sexual way. And I am sure that they are.
2006-11-09 17:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by tamsgranny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on where you are located some places have consentment age above 16 years old.
But really if she wants to get married with this guy I can't see what you can do about it. Sure you could find away to be make obstacles to their union...
But how would that help you with getting the lady???
Anyways good luck with your issues
2006-11-09 17:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jeronimo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want to stop them from getting married, because you like her as well. You didn't say when they are planning on getting married either. If they are in love and want to get married some day, than don't get involved, because you could get burned.
2006-11-09 17:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hopefully she will make the right decision on her own. but if you really feel you should say something, i would say... you're only 16, are you sure you want to get married so early? there's a lot of guys out there you haven't met, are you sure you pick a good one.... something like that.
2006-11-09 17:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Gina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents, tell your counselor, she is to young. If you know for a fact that they are having sex, remember, it is against the law, and he can go to jail for it. Tell a cop.
Do it all anonymously. Write a note to he mom and dad, and to the others I have mentioned. You do not want to get caught at this, she will hate you for it.
If she has a big brother, tell him. Or a big sister.
2006-11-09 17:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ya gotta know her! I hope you do because that is the only way this will work. You need to tell her that she is too young and that you like her. Don't be afraid to tell her. And if she rejects you and says something that can insult you, forget about her sorry ***.
2006-11-09 17:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by PoT_hEaD_lAdY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
convince her that she is way to young. she needs to wait a few more years so she has the chance to get a full education. he may be rushing things a lot if hes stupid enough to ask her to marry him at that young age
2006-11-09 17:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by wants anwers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her @#$% her life up she could have said no i am 2 young
2006-11-09 17:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋