help please?

Question

me and my g/f had sex and she was 3 days into her period but im 98.9% sure that i didnt c um in her because i pulled out then did....her "flow" is really light now, but theres still blood there...and boh of us are almost posotive that i didnt cu m in her....help please.....now she says she has cramps

Answer 1

Cramping and light bleeding are normal sometimes in early pregnancy, it's called implantation. It takes place several days after actual conception, and many women have these symptoms and mistake it for an "off" period. I had light bleeding for a week with my first pregnancy.
Please also know that the pullout method does not work. Small amounts of semen escape even before ejaculation, and that's all it takes. And many women do not have a "normal" cycle. While it's not common, it is even possible to get pregnant while on your period. Tkae a pregnancy test at home to ease your minds.

Answer 2

Although chances of a girl getting pregnant by having sex during her periods are rare but its not nil, so first of all always use a condom. And in your case, smtimes when couples have sex during menstruation then it is possible that sm part of ur fluid may get inside her even before u ejaculate, this fluid contains progesterone hormone which is responsible for making the uterine wall of female to contract too much, which may result into lesser or even stoppage of blood flow and the same is the reason of her cramps.

Answer 3

First off, you need to realize two things. 1. Sex during a woman's period is not a form of birth control and is not always a safe time as there is no guarantee that every menstrual cycle will be perfectly regular, and 2. pulling out is not a form of birth control either. Before you even get close to ejaculation, there is fluid that leaks from the penis, and this fluid contains sperm. Just takes one good swimmer to reach and egg and in nine months, the baby won't care that you withdrew before ejaculating. Have your gf take a pregnancy test to ease your minds, and while you are buying it, get yourself some condoms and use them every single time you have sex.

Answer 4

She is not likely to be prego as her body was not ovulating at the time. We usually ovulate 14 days after our period/before the next one. I don't think you have anything to worry about. How about you quit having sex before you're married and then you won't have to worry about complications such as this. Are you ready to have a baby? Is she good wife material? Are you good husband material?

This may be just the wake up call you needed.

Please learn from this...
With Love,

Ponderpink

Answer 5

stop worrying over nothing she'll be fine and won't suddenly become pergant.