what should i do??
2006-11-09 15:56:35 · 20 answers · asked by maria c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he got the erection right after i walked in on him
2006-11-09 16:19:10 · update #1
umm chances are he's attracted to you. and embarassed deeply that you saw him in his underwear and scared about the whole situation.
2006-11-09 15:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's weird. He must be very easily humiliated to have that reaction. I've been walked in on and had people see me with an erection and it never led to ignoring them after. In fact it more often than not led to a closer friendship and on occasion some fun too. Then again with friends, I really don;t care what they see of me so maybe that helps me in not getting freaked just because someone sees me erect.
As for waht to do, well, why not just anonymously send him my answer and see if he can find hi sway to lighten up. After all it is just a hard penis and not anything that everyone doesn't already know all about. And he wasn;t even naked so why would he care. Oh, maybe he was freaked out because now someone knows he wears tighty whities. hehe
But I don't know what you can do really other than try to catch him naked and just simply tell him that you know what a penis is, you know what they look like, you know they get big and hard and you want to see one, namely his, up close and in person so you are here to exaimine one for yoruself. And who knows he may wake up to reality and not give a darn.
2006-11-13 20:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do the Hanes commercial... "Nice pants"
How do you feel about it? Was the erection there before you walked in? Just tell him you saw all the American Pie movies two or three times and you did not see anything that you haven't see before. It was like he was a lead in that movie. Depending on how you feel about him is the direction you should take from there. You could say lets pretend it never happened. Just don't tell anyone so it doesn't surface at school. If it does surface at school, then tell him nice package. It is better to be embarrassed and complemented than add insult to injury.
2006-11-10 00:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's embarrassed - because he thought you were offended that he got hard when he saw you...
Tell him it's OK, you're flattered that he got so excited at the very sight of you (even though you're not friends like that) ...tell him it didn't bother you at all, in fact you think it's really sweet that he finds you so attractive, and he's still your friend, so he doesn't need to be ashamed or feel weird around you - tell him you miss him, and you want to be buddies again...
2006-11-10 00:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel, if the situation would be the other way around and he walked in on you (doing .........). Would you wanted to be confronted by your friend, because you are not talking to him? I would just ignore it and not say anything. By the way, how can you walk in on your friend?????
2006-11-10 00:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi maria...the situation is a bit complex...u havent mentioned as to why isnt he talkin 2u...maybe he is ashamed that u saw him in such a state...d question is did he get an erection after seein u or it was already there......in either cases jst ask him y isnt he talkin....n tell him its no reason to feel ashamed that u saw him in such a condition....
2006-11-10 00:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wears tighty whiteys?
Id wait a few weeks, maybe he will get over it, also, tell him boxers are better.
2006-11-09 23:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by lucasban 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
--This guy wears "tighty whities"?
DANG! but bout ur question, u should just let him know that u dont mind that. unless u du....?
2006-11-10 01:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by hydro0016 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got an erection or he had one already?
2006-11-09 23:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
let him see you in your tighty whities. Fair is fair.
2006-11-10 00:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying to talk to him. He's probably really embarrased by this all, and if you let him, he might just quit talking to you completely. If you don't leave him alone, he might start talking to you again.
2006-11-10 00:00:35 · answer #11 · answered by Donald K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋