friend trouble?

Question

i have a friend who has really changed. she came out of the closet, lies to her mom and has a girlfriend who is definatley over 18 and shes only 16. we used to be really close but now were drifting apart and dont have much in common to talk about any more. i feel bad when she says im her best friend but im kinda not becuase i dont really talk or have a bond with her anymore. what should i do?

Answer 1

Apparently, you are not that interested in your girlfriend anymore, because she showed you a side you didn't know about. You don't have to tell her anything and you certainly don't have to feel bad when she is calling you her best friend. You don't have much in common with her. Just be courteous to her when she talks to you. I am sure you have other girlfriend you can hang out with.

Answer 2

I would continue to put distance between you. Start planning events with other friends. If she comments on it, simply tell her that, although you will always be friends, your interests are different now. You should not feel bad at all, this happens all through life and it will happen after high school, after college and after you get married.

Answer 3

sometimes fren comes n leave footsteps some leave scars. mayb u should find out y is she hanging out wit those ppl. u are a fren n fren nvr been left behind if she make u feel tat way than catch up wit wats bothering her ok all the best.

Answer 4

You are growing in different directions but can still be friends forever.

Answer 5

Don't burn bridges. She's your friend. Be there for her, but find yourself a new best friend, one that you can feel close to.

Answer 6

try taking to her, about what u feel, tell her how she changed, tell her how u miss her old her try it and let me now if it work out ,ok?
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