Let me explain. I will use my life for example. When all the other kids were talking, playing, and having fun, I was reading, doing my work, and daydreaming. I can be a very quiet person to be around (only if you are a family member or a very close friend, will one see my talkative side, but even that can have limits.) Girls my age can talk for hours and hours on the phone or regularly, but me, if one puts me on the phone or just talks to me, the conversation may go like this: Hello, How are you, I'm fine! and then... mean, I am not an eloquent person. When other peers my age are concerned with relationships, TV shows, sports, etc., I are usually concerned with world events, cultures, things like that. Now, I know that , being human, I am going to have some adversaries in life, but I have had more enemies than I deserve and often when I was done wrong, there were no friends to support me, no one to trust or rely on. I was just trying to mind my own business. Why the hate? Do You know?
2006-11-09 15:42:49 · 7 answers · asked by Sapphire-by-the-sea 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Maybe they are trying to bring you down, to get you on their level.
If I were you, I would participate in school activities. People like people who get excited about the same things they are excited about.
I know you want to be an introvert and curl into yourself, but you should peek out once in a while. People are sensitive and they may be resentful because you refuse to talk to them. They will think you are stuck up.* So, go to a football game, watch a TV show that they like. Show your peers that you care about their world, too.
* Well, on the flip side, you can't do things just so people will like you. People can dislike people for no reason at all.
2006-11-09 16:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by LaCosaMasBella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take other's rudeness and stupidity with a grain of salt. You should be proud of yourself for not being a sheep. If someone picks on you about it or just in general then realize that it's their problem not yours. It's obviously effecting you and that's one of the keys of being a bully. If you let them get you down then that feeds into what they want. It doesn't matter why they hate you. It only matters that you like you. Because those people will be with you your whole life. I mean adults can act just as childish or act like they are still in high school. So it's better at a younger age to accept yourself and accept there will be bullies and it's their problem.
2006-11-09 16:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those who are mean to you are jealous that you have settled into a quiet happy place where you put important matters up front. You are much more mature. While they babble- on you will be setting goals for yourself and your life. Many people will have to make lots of mistakes before they will be as mature as you are. Lets just say that you are more evolved and they can not understand and are upset and quiet jealous!
2006-11-09 16:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why Filipinos? First, absolutely everyone might nicely be doing that. 2d, it would not could do with one's nationality, citizenship, ethnicity, race ... third, the involvement of Tagalog freaks me out. haha. replace that. nicely, if that is a public place, it could make a jackal out of me yet I won't do something through fact i've got not got a declare to something. Or if i will ask him/her to decrease his/her voice, then that is okay--that's the only factor i will do on the subject of that guy or woman. If I fail, I truthfully have feet and might merely hit upon a quiet place. yet while it occurs to be a private place, i would be nevertheless good sufficient to furnish him/her a minimum of a super gamble, then he/she could understand the thank you to circulate incredibly rapid.
2016-11-23 13:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are testing you to see what you are about. They pick on you to see if they can pick on you.
Guys test to see if other guy is cool. If you get all pis@ed off, they win. Now they know this guy is not cool and they can pis@ him off by picking on him. The thing to do here is to act unafraid and unconcerned and give the ragging back a little.
Girls are picking to just be mean. I think it best to actually overreact and make it not worth it to pick on you.
If a guy picks on you. I don't know what that would be about, but call him out on picking on a girl, not manly, maybe he is a bit of a girl if he has to pick on girls and not other guys.
2006-11-09 16:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids are very mean to begin with . When someone like yourself is notice these loud obnotious kids don't understand why so they strike out at you .
this is very wrong , but the good news is that when we grow up it gets better ,keep your chin up and just be you sweetie .
2006-11-09 15:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE CAN BE LIKE THAT, THEY GET THERE KICKS FROM IT, MY ADVICE IS TO PICK ONE, HIT THEM FAST AND HARD, WHERE IT COUNTS THE MOST, THAT'S ALL THOSE S.O B,S UNDERSTAND. THE,LL THINK BEFORE THE MESS WITH YOU AGAIN.
2006-11-09 15:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋