A friend of mine was helping me with getting this guy that im really falling 4 and she knows it ... well what 2 say 2 him and then yesterday she starts 2 go out with him.... what should I do. Shouyld I stay friends with her or what.. IS that a real friend
2006-11-09 15:23:30 · 14 answers · asked by sweetkisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should confront her either way. (By confront, I don't mean yell. I just mean.. bring this to her attention and ask how, why, etc.) Seems like a pretty $hitty thing to do to me. Then, in the grand scheme of things, we can't really call dibbs on someone and expect everyone else to ignore their feelings for that person, should there be any. It sucks. The situation sucks, that is. Confront her and see if you two can move past this if you want to. If you want nothing to do with her, then just stop calling. She'll get the idea.
2006-11-09 15:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definately not a true/good friend. Don't settle for less that the best in any kind of relationship if u settle for her getting away with stuff like this trust me the pattern will continue. I had a guy who was chating up a friend of mine switch and he started chatting me up. I had gotten pretty close to him and really liked him before he revealed his feelings for me but when he did i felt he had no respect for my friend who's a real sweetheart. i not only quit talking to him for almost a year but she started dating my brother and i hers!!! :-) I was only 15 then and i knew right from wrong. I'm 33 now and to date, i've never had man trouble with any of my friends!!!! Knock on wood. Some people just don't know what it takes to be a good friend besides men come and go but a true friend PRICELESS
2006-11-09 23:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it can be a yes and a no. it depends. but A true friend will never backstab you. and especially going out with the guy that she knows you are falling with. If you think you can accept the fact, then just stay friends with her. If not, you know what to do right?
2006-11-10 04:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always stay friends!! But now you know something about her! No, she is NOT a real friend. However, please do not sink to her level...always lead from the front...you will find someone else, so it never hurts to be at least cordial with the Ex.
Good luck!
2006-11-09 23:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by Nuk.Nuk.Nuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are talkinq bout she doesnt seem like a true friend, riqht? sort of it was wronq of her and all and you have every riqht to be mad and not talk to her but if it is over a boy ... dont completely fall apart you will have a lot more however it has happened to me also ... but i got my way in the end ! haha ... i went out with him first too it was a jealousy thing ..
2006-11-09 23:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by la la x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not a real friend at all. its not about the fact that she likes him too.. its about the fact that she should have told you instead of smiling and helping you only to turn around and backstab. Just let them both be and stick to ur true friends.
2006-11-09 23:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by nena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is not a real friend and she has many more issues than you wanted to see before she dogged you like this.
same thing happen to me.
i still hurt and it was allmost three years ago,
my man recipocated to her advances.
anyways, stay away from insecure, jealouse people like her. and if he went out with her look on the bright side......her true colors saved you from a jerk off like him.
2006-11-09 23:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no kick her to the curb..you dont need that friends help not stab you psht if i were you i would cuss her out and then take him away from her just to give her a little taste of her own medican...haha..well good luck
2006-11-09 23:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Haley Candace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. True friends don't go after boys you like. She's a back stabber.
2006-11-09 23:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no, if she was a real friend, she'd find her own guy. She seems like she is trying to get you ticked off.
2006-11-09 23:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Amba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋