Don't you think that women should take some of the blame for themselves being raped?

Question

I mean, if you dress slutty, you are highly likely to get raped than a women who dresses modestly.

I am not against of what any women wear. In fact, i like it when a women dresses hot. But I think they should take some of the blame. Yeah, men should take most of the blame, but I think women should take a little also.

Note: I am NOT a raper.

Answer 1

Well, I wouldn't say that they should take some of the blame and the rape part, but I can see where you're going with this. I hate it when girls/women complain about being grabbed in the butt but they're wearing practically nothing. If you don't like it, then why the hell do you invite it?

Answer 2

Absolutely not....She did not ask to be raped and she should not be responsible for any of it. Once a woman says no, it means no. Many women who are raped suffer seriouse medical problems not only from the rape, but they also have a lost feeling of self worth, self esteem and suffer depression, anxiety, and are afraid to be associated with men.
My mother is a voulnteer with a local rape crises center and there have been many cases she has worked where the woman feels its her fault and it is not her fault. There are sexy dressed women and women who are modestly dressed. It doesn't matter how a woman is dressed they are still targets of being raped, as a raper does not always go for looks.
If the woman you speek of has not gone to a rape crises center, she needs to go immediatley. They have councellers who will help her through this traumatic experience she is going through.

Answer 3

No women should never take any of the blame for being raped. No one, not even a s lut, deserves to be raped. It's true that if you dress sluttily, there is a danger of getting unwanted male attention. Even so, the man who is unable to control his animalistic instincts is the one in the wrong.

We are humans. What distinguishes us from animals is the ability to go against our animal instincts. If a man cannot control his lust, then he is nothing more than a mere animal to me and should be locked up.

Answer 4

No maybe you're not a "rapist" (genius) but what you're saying shows that you ARE a disgusting misogynist pig!! If you go to prison and get raped, should YOU be blamed for having "a pretty mouth?" Rape is about domination and violence. not about guys getting so "hot" because of some woman's short skirt that he couldn't help himself. If you really believe this, then maybe you are a rapist. So, what, you think that maybe a rapist should not get as tough a sentence if his victim was dressed "slutty" (as you so eloquently put it) as one who rapes a nun, is that it? What about super models and particularly beautiful women? They turn men on, should they be blamed for being too hot? What about strippers, they're just asking for it, right? And I bet you think that prostitutes can't even BE raped, right? It IS NOT A FACT that women that dress provocatively are more likely to be raped. studies prove that. Rapists want to humiliate, degrade, and dehumanize their victims, and studies show that how the woman is dressed has NOTHING to do with why she is raped. (Opportunity is usually the biggest factor.) If your intent was to just really piss someone off with this question, congratulations, good job, douche!

Answer 5

That's the same as saying a little kid (or 8 year old, or 11, 12, 14, etc.) is to blame for being raped and killed too, since they're wearing a bathing suit and turning a horny guy on and for some IGNORANT REASON YOU BELIEVE, the KID is responsible because _____________ (you fill in the blank....you're the idiot with the ingenious idea that a person is to personally shoulder part of the blame for being raped.)
Maybe if YOU or your mother or someone you love is raped, then YOU can tell THEM how responsible THEY are for their rape and let us all know what their reaction is and see if they agree with your idea. Especially if it's your wife or daughter.

Answer 6

Ok, I understand your question, but think about what you are saying for a moment.

Even if a female had initiated the contact, but then decides that she no longer wants to have sex with this man. If she says no, than no means no.

Those words should mean BACK OFF. No matter what.

I think that some females attract the wrong men by the way they dress, but the blame lies on the person who doesn't stop!

Answer 7

You have quite rightly said 'some of the blame'. Because the major blame must be taken by the person who rapes. Society has been too accommodative to these people committing the offence. There are whole lot of human rights organisation and activists who want to protect the persons committing the offence by telling death penalty is not warranted at any circumstances.
Rape, is the worst crime in this world.
VR

Answer 8

OMG! Get out of the dark ages! What a woman wears NEVER
sacntions ANYONE to violate her body! NO!

Thats the reason why women are so opressed in the middle east. Men are responsible for their own bodies! Human beings are NOT animals, they have the power of choice and don't just work on hormonal urges! If a man cannot control himself, it makes him nothing more than a beast.

There has been enough rubbish out there to blame the woman for rape just because she is herself. I am sure there are exceptions out there where the woman tricks and teases a man, but EVEN THEN... a woman ALWAYS has a right to say NO. A HUMAN being has a right to say NO! Would you say its your fault if you were Gang-Raped in prison just because you look like a chickadee? ( like the TV Series OZ ) where its a show of power and domination?

Answer 9

What part of the VIOLENT act do you NOT understand is a CRIME?

Women who get raped are in NO WAY to be Blamed for being violated. The way a woman dresses does NOT invite Rape. The way a woman looks does NOT invite Rape. A woman can dress any way (including in Filthy Rags) and STILL be raped -- are you saying that by being FEMALE one is inviting rape?

Answer 10

so u are saying that a women who's wearing a tank top in 90 degree weather is asking to be raped????? NO means NO. if I'm wearing sweats No means No, if I'm wearing a reveling dress, No still means No.
how is it a women's fault if a man cant control himself?? its about taking control away from a person, not the way a person is dressed,
u need to grow up.

Answer 11

you sure sound like one. only a twisted mind could think like this. Why can men wear what they want, and if women do the same then she is a seen as a slut???????
AND, BY THE WAY, rape has nothing to do with the way you dress. If it had, why then does your specie rape small innocent children dressed in a nappy and a baby suit????

Please, dear, change your way of thinkoing and start praying that you will not have girls for children.