im 2 months pregnant and i'm not really sure how i should tell my mom..i dont know if i should wait longer or just tell her now...???what do you think???
2006-11-09 14:25:25 · 19 answers · asked by yiyi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I know you are worried, but you need to tell now. You need to be making doctors appointments. You and the baby need to be checked out to make sure everything is going alright and that you both are healthy. She will be disappointed and maybe even hurt, but you not telling her will make her more hurt and disappointed. There is no going back now, what is done is done. You can't beat your self up now. All of the should have, could haves and would haves are of no help either. You have to set your mind to new goals, dreams and making the best life for you and your baby. You can do anything you set your mind to, just be strong and don't let people tell you that you have ruined your life. Finish school and go on with your future, prove anyone wrong that tries to tell you that you can't do it. My prayers are with you and your family.
2006-11-09 14:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you no longer realize you had been pregnant for 5 months?? Goodness. Other posters are asking how historic you're....and from the way in which you may have worded your query, it seems that you're no longer of authorized age but due to the fact that you're afraid to inform your mum and dad. Just sit down your mum and dad down, or simply your mom (in case your father can be fully disappointed with you), and provide an explanation for the predicament. Here's the deal although....you and Jace greater arise with a pretty good plan on what you are going to do to furnish on your little one. Having a collection plan whilst you inform your mum and dad makes you each seem extra mature and competent to take at the accountability of a little one.
2016-09-01 10:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first I would sit her down and just say you have something to tell her and she will most likely be upset by the news. I suggest getting the father together with you and maybe his parents also. Once she or all of you are sitting down, simply tell her you are pregnant and need her support. I'm sure you are very nervous and scared just remember your mom loves you, no matter how she may act at first. Also Good luck!
2006-11-09 15:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Alyss K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down, and let her kno that shes not a bad mother, but you got yourself pregnant, and you need her support. She'll be mad like any other mother would, but thats life. She'll be there for you when you need her the most, and she can help with anything and everything...I was 15 and believe me its not easy...i was 2 months when i found out too...I wish you the best of luck!! And Congrats..Your Gonna have fun..!! and if your young, then make sure you finish skool..! it'll be the best thing for you and your unborn child!!
2006-11-09 17:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her to see it, you should wait. If you want her to have more trust in you, you should tell her. Honestly, the best thing you can do is tell her. You've possibly broken some trust with her, so it's better for her to know from you so she can help you out and gain a little more trust.
2006-11-09 14:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by otter7 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell as soon as possible. Your mom can help you through this, and you won't have this stress anymore. It is best for you and the baby. She may be shocked at first, but when the shock wears off she'll be there for you.
2006-11-09 14:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by angelica 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should better tell ur mum,better now than later,if u tell her now,she would perhaps forgive u but if on the 7 or 8 month,the matters can get worse,and scondly,if u tell your mother,she would perhaps giv u a good advicee
2006-11-09 19:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her as soon as possible. She's going to find out anyway, the more you wait the more both of you will be hurt.
2006-11-09 17:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear,dont worry.
everything will be fine. trust me. Just tell her,she's your mother!
Whats she gonna do,kill you? no. just go ahead and tell her. i bet she'll be a bit dissapointed but not much. She only wants whats best for you,so she'll prolly want whats best for you and your baby. Do you ever see your dad? its him i would be worryed about. lol,but take it in. Be stronge. Its life,ur gonna make mistakes. && people are gonna have to live with it. i wish you the best.
2006-11-09 15:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by Rikki B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been pregnate 2 times.... the first time i (16years old) did not tell my mom.... i thought she would have killed me, and i ended up loseing that baby because i didnt get the care i needed.... the second time i (17 years old) did tell her, and much to my surprise she was cool with it, and started planning for it.... i lost that one to, because i didnt tell my friends and we got to wrestleing around and my boyfriend told me to quit and i didnt.... i got punched in the stomach and about 350lbs were ontop of my stomach, so i would seriously tell your mom what is up, so she knows, and if your as rough as me and my friends are you can tell them before you get hurt without worrying that your mom is going to find out ya know??? Now i might be pregnate again... im not going to tell her untill i know for sure so she dont freak.... just relax and do what you feel is right
2006-11-09 14:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋