I used to get upset when my husband cheated, not i just get pissed. Does that mean that maybe I will get the strength to leave him soon??
2006-11-09 14:13:08 · 33 answers · asked by Angel2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. The opposite of love is indifference, and you seem well on your way there.
I'm sorry that you had this experience. I hope the next man in your life will love and respect you the way you deserve...
2006-11-09 14:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably will be thrashed for this but this is the truth about men who cheat. Men are very primal as we all know, just because they had a one night stand or a affair , doesn't always mean they plan to leave and get a divorce. Men can have relationships, or sex without any emotional attachment at all.( Just a warm breathing body).But this does not make the cheating right. That is not the concept of marriage. You should leave him.... especially if you have started to accept his behavior as OK. You are giving the OK to continue because you tolerate it. Look within and find out why you tolerate his behavior and you will find the answer to this problem
2006-11-09 14:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by mssgtmidnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is not a trick question.....
This isn't a marriage, honey. You have a roommate. A marriage is a love, and admiration and respect that a man has for a woman, and a woman has for a man. They are kind, loving, and tender toward each other. If they choose to have children, those children are reared in a household of trust and affection. Each of the partners has outside interests and hobbies, and jobs, but their comfort is in their relationship. Pretty foreign to what you have, wouldn't you say?
But then this question is a joke, isn't it?
2006-11-09 14:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get some counseling. Even though you think you might be able to leave it will be HARDER than you think after you leave. Even more so when you hear him crying on the phone after you left. But, if my husband cheated and wasn't sorry I would leave in a heartbeat.
2006-11-09 14:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by tina*21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think by asking this question you have the strength to leave him and you know it, you're just afraid to admit it. Yes, it's going to be traumatic, but this is your life, and this is not how you want to spend it. Put whatever plans you need in order, begin today, you are strong enough, now admit it. You deserve better.
2006-11-09 14:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Caper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better you leave him sooner than later. He can't have much respect for you if he keeps cheating on you - can he?
Give him the elbow - you don't need this in your life. What if he brings home some sort of disease? Will he blame it all on you? Yuck - doesn't bear thinking about.
2006-11-09 14:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by shimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him now. ovbiously he doesnt love u like u thought he did if hes cheating . u should confront him if u already havent. and if u have then u shoudl just kick his butt out the door. u have the strength to leave u just need to belive in urself .
2006-11-09 14:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by Charlee w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave NOW! You weak, insignificant woman! What the H E L L are you waiting for? Where is your pride? Well, does he make lots of money? Then that explains it. Hang in there baby!
2006-11-09 14:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by cadee884 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you do. Once a cheater. Always a cheater. You don't deserve that, nobody does. You can definitely find someone better out there that will treat you the way you should be treated.
2006-11-09 14:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When the last little bit of love you once had for him has been destroyed with his infidelity, you will be able to move on and never look back.
2006-11-09 14:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by fearslady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋