What do yall think about Bisexual guys. Are they accepted in the gay comunnity. Because me, I think its greedy and not right for people to have sex with both genders
2006-11-09 13:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How about if your bisexual boyfriend were to cheat on you, you woulnt know which way he would go
2006-11-09 13:57:10 · update #1
Bi guys aren't "greedy" and it isn't something gay guys really should get all that worked up about. They're part of the gay community, live and let live.
Bi BFs who cheat aren't worth having regardless of what gender they cheat with.
Gay and Bi aren't teams, and it isn't a competition.
2006-11-09 14:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Bisexual men are generally pretty closeted, in my opinion. They tend to pass as heterosexual. They seem to marry or have relationships with women. With gay men, they're only interested in sex.
I've never met a bisexual man who had a long-term relationship with a guy. Let alone having the guts to not hide it.
They usually take advantage of all the heterosexual perks, including all the benefits of heterosexual marriage. So often, they're not terrible interested in even having close friendships with other gay people, and they tend to complain an awful lot that the gay community discriminates against them. Go figure. It's not as if they have as much garbage to wade through in every day life.
And of course, sometimes they're not truly bisexual....unless you consider bisexual to mean that they can occasionally maintain an erection with a woman. It's born of shame - being bi is only half as bad as being gay.
I know this will offend some of you, but that's been my experience with bisexual men. I'm sure there are some bisexual men who don't fit this bill, and that's fine. I've tried to state my opinions so that I haven't included ALL bisexual men, just the ones I've met.
I do not hate bisexual men. And it's not a matter of accepting them or not accepting them. I think most gay people don't have much of a problem with bisexuals. Despite the whining that I often see from bisexuals.
I do not care, however, to date bisexual men. For me, it's gay only. I don't think that's discriminating or not accepting them, necessarily. Because I see a lot of personal ads where bisexual men are only interested in other bisexual men. And, they have the right to do whatever they please, and it's not really my business. But I do have a pretty strong opinion regarding their behaviour. Not trying to ban them from gay bars, or any gay organization. But, as a rule, they seem to be fond of the sleazier sexually oriented businesses, not necessarily becoming a part of the community.
Enough with the whining.
Wondering how many thumbs down I'll get. Stereotypes, blah blah. But I call it as I see it.
2006-11-09 23:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Angry Gay Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I accept bisexuals and have had sex with them.
HOWEVER, I do not let my heart get involved, as I could not trust someone who has romantic needs from both sexes. I think bisexuals should be coupled with each other and then they can have sex with their friends when they feel the need for sex in addition to their partner. Honestly and openly, so nobody gets hurt.
2006-11-09 22:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
The gay community has had a hard enough time being accepted by heterosexuals, why then should the gay community not accept bisexuals. To me, it would be hypocritical to treat them as outcast when homosexuals have faced the same criticism.
2006-11-09 22:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i support every persons right to live their life any way they want, but i would never date a bisexual. i can deal with competition from another man, but i won't compete with women, thats a no win situation for all involved.
2006-11-10 02:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they should be accepted in the gay community becuase you are excepted and it is greedy but human do whatever they want you know that hun. If he is cheating then for get it because it's not right to go on with him like that he already established that he's selfish
2006-11-09 22:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by FELICIA H 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Personally i have no problem with bi guys, i know a fair few gay people do say that they are greedy though!
2006-11-09 22:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well first of all you make it sound as if it's a choice..that people choose to have attractions to both genders...that's simply not true....I'm gay and I'm perfectly fine with gays bi's lesbians trans and straights.
2006-11-09 23:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should worry about your own greed and dumbassidness and stop trying to judge others
2006-11-13 14:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by cindyxdresser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just they want it so they are OK and it is not so important
2006-11-09 22:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by kevinCorea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋