2006-11-09 13:38:01 · 17 answers · asked by Monkey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shakespeare said it best " It is better to have loved and lost ,than to have never loved at all"
2006-11-09 14:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately to "have loved"... If you could only have one, I think that's the obvious choice. To only "have been loved", you would miss out on all of the feelings (the butterflies, the desire, the passion) that make love the most wonderful emotion that there is. Sure, it hurts to love and not be loved, but in the end, you're better for having experienced the giving of your heart to someone else.
2006-11-09 21:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how they can be different. To love someone means the feeling is mutual, or else you have a crush. To be loved and to not return that love might feel like you are being stalked.
Maybe it's a question of whether it is better to love then to not have loved at all.
2006-11-09 21:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO HAVE LOVED...cos the feelings of loving someone is the best feeling god ever gifted on a person!!! especially if you able to change a person life with the loves that you have given...
Its the same goes to THE HAND THAT GIVES IS GREATER THAN THE HAND THAT RECEIVED...I chose the 'GIVES' part, it is so gratifying and satisfying!
2006-11-09 21:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TO BE LOVED OF COURSE. That is what everyone searches for and hopes to find throughout their life time. It can be a very wonderful experience
2006-11-09 21:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by mssgtmidnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a one way road
2006-11-09 22:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ormoz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have loved. I love my wife and kids so much without expecting anything in return.
2006-11-09 21:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have loved, because the feeling alters one's life forever.
2006-11-09 21:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by Oghma Gem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to have loved the reason being is it can make your life complete to be loved back by them/
2006-11-09 22:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to have been loved, because when someone loves you, no matter what, it still makes you feel good. but when u love someone and they don't love you back, it's nothing but heartbreak. I think its always nice to be loved.
2006-11-09 21:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Polina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋