should i have an erection for any girl that i think is hot or do i really have to be madly in love with her in order to have a erection? there's this girl that i really like, but i don't get an erection 4 her, but i don't think about doing her, is this why i don't get an erection 4 her? should i be getting erections 4 girls that i like even though i really don't think about doing them? help! i'm 14, straight, male
2006-11-09 13:17:48 · 8 answers · asked by tc 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
liking a person and being sexually interested in a person can be two different things. Thus gettign erect for one girl tha tyou want to ge tit on with and not getting erect for a girl you truly like is perfectly normal.
Besides at 14 yoru hormones are raging and erections are totally unpredictabel anyway. You will get them over one girl then nest time it will pop up in the locker room with nary a female in sight. And next day when the teacher asks you to stand up, you will but not just on your feet. So, relax and enjoy and don;t letanythgin gogin on with yrou body mess up your head; it will all work itself out as puberty completes it's job on you.
2006-11-13 13:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erections are brought on by your parasympathetic nervouse system, which is turned off when you get nervous or (believe it or not) when you like someone TOO much, because it's difficult to relax. But pay attention to your body. If you don't think someone is sexually exciting, you might want to consder friendship rather than anything more
2006-11-09 22:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 , almost anything can cause an erection.That's something you can't really control.Your very young to worry about " doing them "unless you can afford $200,000.That's how much it cost's to raise a child until they are 18 years old ! ! !
Think with your head but not with the erected one !
2006-11-09 22:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only get erections if you imagine yourself doing the girl and make yourself believe that you are.
2006-11-09 21:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Coolfunnygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude at 14 I got hard for every girl that moved, but thats o.k. not all are the same you Im supossed to tell you that your to young for sex but as we all know thats not going to happen, it happends dude some times you get turned on then other times you wont thats normal man dont worry about it,do try to limit your self and for the love of God use protection.
2006-11-09 22:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no , you don't automaticly get an erection just because you think a girl is hot............. it doesn't work that way
2006-11-09 21:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by xjoizey 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dog your 14, don't even go there.
2006-11-09 23:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by soccergirl47546 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your just fine
2006-11-09 22:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by wieser2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋