ok so i started at a new school this september (7) and i met this girl and we became really good friends. we called eachother best friends, but about 2 weeks ago, she got really mad at me for going to a movie with another one of my friends. Now shes convinced that the girl i went to the movie with is "trying to steal me away from her". which shes not, because shes been telling me continously that she doesnt want to come between me and the first girl. But now my "best friend" wont say sorry to the other girl but she claimed she did (shes lying she never did) so i asked her to tell the girl i went to the movie with, sorry. but now i feel that i dont really like her anymore and shes gotten very clingy... always have to know where im going, what im doing, and shes continously giving me hugs (even in the middle of class, and as an honour student i want to concentrate but i cant when im getting huged ever 2 minutes). And at the school dances she dances... (cont' down on extended details)
2006-11-09 12:53:24 · 14 answers · asked by bulletprooflonliness 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
like, paris hilton in The Stars Are Blind. Just in a way i feel incomfortable with. and then she thinks that shes so good at everything... like she tried out for vollyball and she kept bragging she was so good (shes terrible,), and she thinks that ALL the guys love her (not true either, im friends with most of them and they tell me). She overall is just getting annoying, clingy, and very brag-sih. im tired of it and i have much better friends that ive known longer who i consider my best friend more than her. So how do i get her to stop?
2006-11-09 12:56:22 · update #1
*p.s i dont hug back, she just grabs me from behind.
2006-11-09 12:58:46 · update #2
You've answered your own question. Get some space between you and her. She doesn't respect your boundaries and she is definitely a space invader.
2006-11-09 12:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by RockwallCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is bad news! She's too clingy and she gets jealous when you hang out with other people. If you really want to take the time and talk to her about the way she's acting, then do so. Make sure that you are honest and tell it like it is. From the description that I've been reading about your situation, I can tell that you don't want to be her friend anymore. Continue to stay friend with the people that aren't clingy and jealous like this other girl is. Once you said what you had to say, start ignoring her and hopefully she will come to her senses. It's entirely up to you on how you should handle this situation. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-11-09 21:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could stop asking her to do stuff, dont hug her in class, and go to dances with somebody else, sooner or later she'll get the hint. If she asks why you are acting weird, just tell her that your intrest have changed and you think maybe you should start hanging out with other people. If that doesnt work, she is COMPETELY attatched to you and you are ment to be friends. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 20:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by manduhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to realise her mistake.. perhaps she loves you a little too much and tatz why she is being possessive..i had a friend like that once and one day she just left me without a sign of my mistake.. anyway am much more happier now with my new friends and there is no restrictions laid apon me..and now i have many many nice people around me.....
2006-11-09 20:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is being to clingy. Let her down easy. Tell her she is not your boss. You don't what to give her the silent treatment it will make her hate you. You could hang out with that other girl.
2006-11-09 20:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Tree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too possessive, you have a right to have other friends. I'd hang with the other friend more and just kind of let her fade away.
2006-11-09 20:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to back off and give you a little space. She's not the only friend you have, tell her that.
2006-11-09 20:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like pointless teenage drama... Not much you can do. It happens to all of us. It sounds like your "best friend" is a jealous idiot and needs to grow up. Tell her that nicely or she'll be that way for forever.
2006-11-09 20:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by StarlightRedemption 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem but i think u should try to find new riends and just kinda be nice to her.
2006-11-09 20:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Dancer24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit taking her calls and hugging her?
2006-11-09 20:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by backroadhome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋