Is it normal for a woman to not want or enjoy sex (as a permanent condition)?

Answer 1

I have heard that depression, medication, and overweight can cause a woman not to want sex. But permanently?? Somewhere, sometime, somebody is gonna miss something.
Anddddd they say sex is good for depression and the complexion anddddd energy.

Answer 2

Depends on the age of the woman.

After menopause, a woman's interest in sex decreases.

If the woman is below age 40, it could be that the man wants instant sex. Men always want to jump right in and have sex NOW without foreplay.........but what they need to understand is that women need foreplay.

You need two things to have sex:

1. A man needs an erection - he obviously wouldn't have an erection if he weren't interested in having sex.

2. The woman needs lubrication. She will need to have kisses and cuddling and "foreplay" for that to happen.

It takes some women longer than others to get interested. Especially an exhausted woman who might have been awake since the crack of dawn working and taking care of children and cooking meals and cleaning house and doing laundry.

A woman needs foreplay, and you probably aren't going to get any unless you try to be more romantic.

By the way, foreplay can start hours before you get home. You can call home at lunch and suggest a romantic dinner and make your intentions for the evening clear........and that way you both have all afternoon to look forward to your romantic evening.

Good luck!
Robin_in_Tennessee

Answer 3

Yes

If she was sexually abused a child, she might never get over it. Everytime she is touched in that fashion brings up old memories and feelings. Some kids never report it and never told their parents, or their parents was part of the problem. These women have issues that may never be overcome.

Some wome are raised in a very strict and religous environment. Sex was something considered dirty and sinful. Every time they feel the least bit of pleasure from it, then it is accompanied by guilt. They spent the first 20 or so years brain washed that it was bad, and now to change their thought process is difficult.

Answer 4

Umm, no...First of all you must ask yourself am I doing all I can do to make this woman enjoy sex? Apparently she has had a bad experience in her lifetime to just not want or enjoy sex. Maybe she is uncomfortable with her body. I'm sure she has her reasons, but the majority of women I know, want sex more than their men want to give it. Have a talk with her and see exactly why she just isn't interested. Good luck...

Answer 5

Most women dont enjoy sex unless the man she is with is making her enjoy it LOL You gotta know how to handle a woman in order to make her enjoy it..Finding the right spots on her is the key to a great bedroom life....Lana

Answer 6

I think that some women lose the urge after getting married and having children...especially after having children.

I have heard that a woman's drive goes up when they are in their late 30's right into their 40's!! I'm counting the days!

Answer 7

Not normal but not uncommon either. There is usually some back ground mental issue, like abuse that started it. Go see a doctor or psychologistic and they will fix you up right away.

Answer 8

No, its not really normal. Birthcontorl can affect libado, I know that for sure. Im dont want or enjoy sex eather, Im going to see my dr about it soon.

Answer 9

Once married 95% of woman become this way. So yea apparently it is

Answer 10

it happens to some women..more than u think. its not permanent tho..well in all cases its not..but it does happen.