I have two best friends they are the greatest, but I told them a secret about something and they told me to tell someone, but I told them Im not ready. Then they said fine if you dont wnat our help theres nothing we can do about it. I want there help, and they really are helping, but now there talking about me (they say their not) I feel like were falling away, but there the only friends I have. What should I do about how I feel?
2006-11-09 12:27:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
these friends are the only friends I have, I dont really get out and Im homeschooled so what should I do?
2006-11-09 12:34:33 · update #1
I dont want to fight with them, but they dont really get how I feel, and it hurts when they say that I dont want there help, it not like I dont care about what there saying its just hard.
2006-11-09 12:36:49 · update #2
I cant go to my parents it has to deal with the,. Nothing real serious like rape or anything, but it still hurts.
2006-11-09 12:38:33 · update #3
How do you know they are talking about you? Are others coming up to you?
Also many people can't keep secrets especially if what they've been told is serious. They may be afraid or unable to help you and are seeking help from others.
Asking our friends for advice isn't smart because they could be in the same or similar situation and not have the maturity to know how to handle it.
If you are having trouble, you may need to consult someone trained or at least more experienced in handling problems. Is there someone older you can go to? Teacher, counselor, doctor, religious leader, your friends' parents, someone??
We all have problems. I have a group of friends who are older than I that I consult. I hope you can find someone too.
2006-11-09 12:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what it is but i have been in there shoes to . if they was true friends and what you told them was bad then they just are tring to do what is best but they should not have been like that they should have been there with you to tell . i had a friend that was abused and it scared her to tell afraid for her and chid so it took time to come around but she finally done it now he is out of there life . it was not easy but to save her and the chid she had to . i will pray that what ever it is god will lead you threw it safe .
2006-11-09 20:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by mommyeagle1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them how u feel tell them that u love there help but sometimes u dont agree if it is something u need tell like about rape suicide listen to them if its about a boy say watever
2006-11-09 20:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't do what these people are doing to you.
Friends stick by you and are faithful to you always.
You need to be your own best friend....find some new friends...you'll be much better off.
2006-11-09 20:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋