i have this wife that bad mouthed my husband for no real reason at all. Our husbands get along just fine. And so did me and this girl, until she called my husband two faced. she said she was sorry. And now I have to take my husband something (he's in the military and stationed an hour away for another week) but normally we arent supposed to see our hubbys till they come home. now this wife found out that I am going to see my husband (with his higher ups permission) and wants to go to. Which i also have permission to do. My question is after she called my husband two faced should I take her with me? Because i hold the power to decide.
2006-11-09 12:16:06 · 4 answers · asked by april_lujano 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah take her with - you loose out on nothing. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. If you really dont want to take her thiknk of a good excuse = otherwise you'll just be creating an enemy.
2006-11-09 12:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by huvgj 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You got permission ...did she or is she just riding in on your ticket.
Doesn't matter what she said in the past...This is your weekend...you don't owe her anything.
If it would be fun to have her there...well that's one thing
But sounds like you have plans of your own.
Get on with your life and let her do the same.
Be honest with her...tell her you want him to yourself.
She can do whatever. It's not your problem.
People are always adjusting themselves for others and
then feeling bad about it. I say do what you want and be happy!!
2006-11-10 23:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grudges are not something married people should have.
This woman loves her husband, period, just as you love yours.
Reverse the situation, you did something wrong, should she deny you the RIGHT to SEE YOUR HUSBAND?
I don't think it would be moral of you to deny her, ESPECIALLY as a military wife.
Shame on you for even thinking it.
2006-11-09 20:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by sucha_jewel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
god forgive why we dont forgive
if she realy feel sad about what she said why u dont forgive her
2006-11-09 20:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋