Mean thing to do....?

Question

I snuck out of my moms house in the middle of the night without telling her,that was 4 days ago, and she or my grandma or any1 else in my family kno dont where im at, I just turned 18 2months ago so they cant put me as a missing child, they keep leaving messages,but I still havent told them where I am, its a payback for my mom, shes a total wiiiiiiatch

Answer 1

cool where are you?
i would just like call and be like im fine leave me alone.

Answer 2

When you mature you will understand that living well and not lowering to their level is the best avenue. Until then....well, just wait.

Think about it, there is no law that says the child has to be more immature than the adult. What if...........you acted in the more adult fashion? If your mother got petty and vengeful, you just walked away, without giving in to anger and shouts?

Spend some time thinking about what would be the "higher ground" and try that on for size, do you think you could do it?

If you simply called, apologized for the anxiety you have caused, inform her that you have made other arrangements for a place to live, that you have the financial means to take care of yourself, and when some time has passed you two can get together again, possibly for a nice dinner you prepare at your new place. I bet she would be pretty impressed and would get off your case.

Answer 3

remember payback is a b i t c h (i had to spell it that way so u'd understand) your kid (s) will do it to you some day....revenge never pays...y dont you talk wit your mum about ur differences being 18 doesn't mean you own d world...u r still young and dont know much abt the world, you are prone to making silly mistakes. y dont u let ur mom guide u and prepare you for the world....sooner or later you will regret leaving home and run back to the arms of your waiting mom just like the prodigal son. no matter how mean you say she is am sure she loves you.

=)

Answer 4

Not mean but CHILDISH is more like it. You may legally be an adult but what's the point? At least be civil. Say I am fine (if you truly are) & that you want to be left alone. Trust me does not matter if you are 18 they can still have the cops put an APB out on you.

Answer 5

Cool...Hope you have a job, because when you go back your stuff might be waitng for you at the door. Don't foget about the security deposit, the 1st and last months rent and the fees to turn on your utilities as well as stocking your cupboards with some grub...GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 6

where ever u are u should atleast call your mom and tell her your ok because she is probaly really worried about u. but hey u have the right to leave because your 18. since your a adult now u should be able to think about the consequnces to your actions. my advice give your mom a heads up that your ok and try to put yourself in her shoes and see how she feels!

Answer 7

at least let the authorities know you are ok.they don;t have to tell where you are.too many go missing and are found dead,yes that;s mean and thoughtless.lot's of money ghoes into searching for missing children,this affects all those people who may be spending time away from their families looking for your butt! find another way to piss your parent off

Answer 8

i think you are a spoiled little brat and if or when they do find you i think they should cut all ties to you and let you fend for yourself the rest of your life and one day i hope you have a kid that treats you the same way how dare you make people worrie if you are dead or alive? what happens if someone kidnapps you? no one will even be looking for you.. but i gues while your waiting there for him to kill you you can think about how awful you treated your family

Answer 9

That is horrible. Your family must be worried sick. You sound very selfish. When you have children of your own, you will look back at the horrors you caused her.

Answer 10

Wow, you sound so mature and totally ready to live on your own.